is any girls dating older men maybe 10 or more yrs older than them…my boyfriend is 23 yrs older than me and i love it! sumtimes does any one call there boyfriends daddy? is that weird…? anyways i just wanted some opinions on any younger girls and there relationships and outputs towards dating older mean and calling them daddy….
aahhh ! my boyfriends 23 years older than me its awesome ! i’ve called him daddy a couple times when were drunk. ahhaha. i love dating a sugar daddy 😉 hes hottt !
Me and my boyfriend are living with my grandmother until we can get on our feet because we had our own apartment and it didnt work out well financially. well shortly after we moved in with my grandmother my boyfriend lost his job. My family feels like he isnt trying hard enough to look for a job. Hes been out of work for a month now. Hes only been out two days to look for a job and he filled out like 3 applications. I understand where they are coming from because he needs to be helping my grandmother if hes living there and im really starting to get frustrated with him. Im not working because I am in school and he always throws it in my face that I need to be out looking a job too which I have been doing. My mom tells me I dont need to work and he gets all mad and says if hes working I need to be working. I found a sign holder job and he wouldnt do it because he said he didnt want to stand in the heat for 6 hours…I told him ALOT of men work in the heat…he isnt a manly guy either btw…and Im just starting to feel like this relationship sint going to work anymore. Im 22 years old and im not happy with the way things are…What should I do? I love him but I just cant stand this anymore he doesnt even have a dollar in his pocket. He just doesnt seem like hes trying enough and he always needs me to be with him to go look for a job…he says he has nowhere to go but I know his mom would let him live there….I dont know what to do! My grandma keeps saying its okay if he stays there and isnt working but to me its not okay being that shes on a small income. I feel like im needing so much more out of a relationship…i mean we are living with my grandmother! Please help
because ur boyfriend likes girls.
I was with him for a year and a half. He is 29 and i am 32. My daughter is 12. He was the sweetest man ever. He loved both of us and called my daughter his own. She loved him as well and even called him Dad. Things were going good besides the occasional bump in the road like any other relationship. We had things we were working on and neither one of us were perfect. We had plans to get married and buy a house and planned to be together forever. He got a job offer two and a half hrs away. He took it not even consulting me or considering what it would do to us. It killed me that he would do that but I didn’t want to lose him. We tried to see each other on wknds and I agreed that when we got married we would move there to be with him. He continued pushing us away and started ignoring us and eventually broke up with me on text. It killed me beyond words. He didn’t really communicate with me much since then until the other night. I had tried reaching out to him several times and he was very short and blunt, no feelings shown. The other night I went out with a new guy and my ex was in town. I didn’t plan on running into him and it was hard. He texted me while we were in the same place. He just asked if i hated him etc. and it led to us talking more on e-mail this week. He said he was sorry for the things he did and the way he did them. He said he didn’t mean for things to fall apart the way that they did. He admitted that he should have handled everything with us a lot better but that business stress got to him and the little fights we had pushed him away and he shut down.I still love him with all of my heart. I told him I forgave him. I was trying to be understanding but still letting him know that if he hadn’t given up we could have worked through anything together. He said he still loves us both so much and it kills him everyday. He said he loves me in several emails. He says that he asks about us all the time. He said that he would like for us to try to be there for each other to help each other through things. I said that I couldn’t be his friend after all of the future plans we had that fell apart and he said that he is still working on himself and that is why he says friends. He said that his mind was so stressed and he just needed a break. He keeps saying just needed a "break". He says that he sees things everywhere that remind him of us. He explains the different ways that he was trying to work on things for us or that he knew I was trying to work on things for us. I just dont know what to do. He hasn’t asked about getting back together. I want to keep things slow and calm. I don’t want to upset him or "stress" him out. I want to be understanding and try to give him time to think it through. I just wonder if he wants to be back with me? He says he just didn’t know how to fix it. He was such a sweet man and then started just ignoring us. It was not truly him. It makes me so sad because I have dated five guys since we broke up eight mths ago and I know that I love him! The last communication was from me I sent him an email saying that I had some things to say about what could of been the problem with him and what might of been going on with him when he got overloaded with stress. I was just trying to help him. But that was yesterday. No response. Please help me.
Wow, I can really feel your heart in this issue. We are human we mess up, this was a big one. You are dealing with it correctly. You still have to heal from what happened. Do not let your love make you be in a rush to put this back together. Keep going slow, this will take time. Let him come to you only when you feel you are ready.
I only ask this because I’m short (5’3") and about a C/B cup size. But I am skinny, only 115 lbs. I have looked and looked and always found the same thing. Big Boobs and a big butt make for a better match. I get passed over by men all the time. I dress to show off the goods, any advice?
stuff your bra or panties and plus a man should love you for who you are
Stressed & Im just looking for advice. Thanks in advice
I love 2 men, one I share a 5 year old daughter with but have gone through a ton of heartache with. He recently told me he didn’t like me or love me in the past which is why he treated me like garbage he felt he needed to be with me because I was pregnant but now and for the past 2-3 years he does love me. WOW that was a slap in the face but anyway the last 2-3 have been better than the prior years but still all in all it’s been hell. We broke up a few months ago and i moved out but now we are starting to work on things again because he actually is acting like father and changing (a little). There is very little trust, intamicy, and passion in our relationship.
Now there is a new man I met 6 months ago when my daughters father and I broke up. There is Crazy chemistry and we care about each other very much. He is the total oppisite of my daughters dad and has came off as nothing less than respectful motivated and compssionate. While we were dating my daughter had him wrapped around her finger. We all had lots of fun together. To me he is perfect for me, perfect for us. But I still love my daughters dad. I see and talk to both at the moment. The new guy knows about the first, & is not happy with it but says he will wait for me and just wants me to be happy . My daughters father knows nothing, he would flip.
I feel like I don’t know the second man well enough to completely end my relationship with the first. It scares me, but I also don’t want to settle….
So you are stringing along the father as a "plan B" guy.
You don’t want to settle, but you will give the father false hope.
Be a grown up and end it.
I’m a mid twenties female, straight and been in 3 serious relationships. Problem is I feel like I am falling for my female friend who is married with a family. I don’t think of women sexually.. They don’t turn me on at all. I love a man’s body but I find myself thinking about this girl and want to be with her all the time. I wouldn’t and can’t tell her or anyone but I am having a hard time with this. I’ve felt admiration for women before, like girl crushes or whatever but could this be bc I’ve been hurt by men? I only can see myself with a man and family in the future. I just don’t want to even give any guys a chance, I’d rather just be with her.. Not sexually at all but just spend time, etc?? I’m so confused.. Any sound advice would be appreciated 🙂
Well, if there’s no sexual interest, then I don’t think you’re bisexual. I just think you have a strong emotional bond with her, which is OK to a point. It’s sounds like maybe you’re obssessing. Do you have a little bit of OCD? Do you obssess over other things? Maybe the reason you have such strong feelings is because you feel unfulfilled with other relationships in your life. Anyway, I think the reason is psychological. Maybe you feel "safe" with her because she’s a married woman and there’s no chance of a romantic relationship, thus no chance of being hurt.
My husband and I are currently separated and everyone keeps telling me to give him some space, leave him alone and start acting like I am not bothered by the fact that he left and that I am having a grand old time without him. To me that would make it seem like I didn’t care but everyone says if he sees that I don’t need him it will make him realize what he is missing and make him come back. Is that true about most men?
I agree about letting him have some space and time because men take longer than women to figure out what they really want to do. This is a good time to figure out what you really want in your life, just enjoy connecting with yourself, if you want to make some changes now is a good time. If and when he’s ready, he will come to you but he may be surprised to find an happier more self assured woman.
im 18 and never had a boyfriend because i never really felt ‘ready’.
i now feel mature, and im happy with myself, and im ready to share my life with someone else now. only problem is, i’m afraid.
ive been surrounded by horrible men. my dad, grandad, my friends dad, my friend’s ex boyfriends etc..
im so afraid of heartbreak… like anyone else i guess. i have read that lots of people do go on to marry their first love etc… but i cant help thinking.. it miht not.
i am the most loyal person, im friendly, very very caring and i would be a great girlfriend and give my life to someone i loved, im just so nervous that i will meet someone, but i wont go on to marry them etc..
i’ve had a very sh!t lfe up until now. problems with my family, friends and i’ve suffered depression/anxiety.
i just want a boyfriend… but i dont want to be cheated on and treated badly.
how can i get over this fear and just get into a relationship?
You are only 18, so wait until the perfect person comes along, that you can trust (the main thing in a relationship) fully and that you love 🙂 You sound like a lovely person, so nobody should let you down..! Good luck 🙂