What is the mystique for a younger man to pursue an older woman?

I am 35 and would like to date an older man however I am constantly pursued by younger men. I am currently "seeing" a younger man that is just awesome….if her were older…and when he is older I wish I were younger…hahaha! How many people have seen an older woman/younger man relationship. Just need to prepare myself…are we just having fun or could this go anywhere.

You cannot predict the outcome of a relationship based on age alone. Do you think cave people had IDs or memory of their birthdates and therefore accounts of their biological age? They based relationships on attraction alone, age difference were a man should always be older than the woman is nothing more than a side effect of civilization.

does any one know how the LEO woman and SAGITTARIUS man relationship is?

would a leo woman and sagittarius man relationship last.i really feel as if me and him have chemistry together…any details and tips would help peeps.thanks

Leo and Sagittarius are very compatible for each other. The relationship is good because they both like the same things.

What does a younger man see in an older woman?

I’d love to hear from those who are in or have been in an older woman/younger man relationship. I’d especially like to hear the guy’s point of view. I’m in a relationship where I’m quite a bit older than my guy. I’m fine with it, but sometimes I wonder if it bothers him.

Class, sexiness, a brain, down to earth, knows what she wants, won’t play games but yet still likes to have fun, knows her body, is comfortable being who she is, doesn’t need to be fake…I am married to a woman older than myself.

Though there are some pretty young girls out there, I woudln’t like a relationship with any of them. They seem too fake, they seem like the purposely act dumb to get attention, their sense of style is not what I consider sexy, and I’ll be damned if I have to have a conversation with them via text messaging.

Why do black women always claim that they are attracted to black men?

Is it because no other race of men will dig them. We all know they are the least desirable. Who are you trying to fool. Black women always make this excuse when other race of women ask them why aren’t black women/non black men relationship common?

The real Danger is cute.

Most black women do love black men. What’s it to you?

Are there any virgo women and aquarius man or virgo women and scorpio man relationships?

Are there any virgo women and aquarius man or virgo women and scorpio man relationships?
if there are tell me how yalls relationship is…whats good about it…? whats bad about it?

A famous scorpio man was Charles Manson, crazed psycho mass murderer. Another is Bill Bryson, jovial travel writer.

A famous aquarius man was Richard Ramirez, serial killer. Another famous one was Abraham Lincoln, US president who abolished slavery.

And mother Tereza was a virgo.

Pointless isn’t it?

What kind of advice or tips would you like to read about?

I am a psychology student who has been focusing a lot of study on relationships, and I plan to write a book filled with personal experience, stories from friends, psychology knowledge, and everything else to do with relationships. It will be funny and informative, but I want to know what people want to know about.

hints and tips on how to make women or men fall for ya. how to keep them with you. how to make then laugh and smile after years of being together. how to keep a sex life up and exciting. stuff like that.

What advice can you give me as to how I can keep things in perspective?

I lose perspective over silly silly things so often. I get myself in twists over really ridiculous things – often within my relationship, because I suppose I feel I have the most to lose. For example, I’m currently stressing over my boyfriend bumping into a girl I dislike intensely. He will see her this evening – not intentionally, she will just be where he is going. I get so wound up and just want to howl! HOW do I STOP thinking this way and just accept things???! This is not the only example – there are many many things that I get out of perspective almost every day. It’s getting hard. I feel like I’m running in water and getting nowhere.

Anyone have any pointers reorganising my thought process? I’m on a CBT waiting list so this isn’t currently an option.
I can be possessive, but not with all girls. Just two girls that drive me bonkers because I find them threatening. Not cos hey look nice or play nice, but because they’re manipulative. I just hate these two girls – as individuals, not cos I’m jealous or anything. Which I suppose I am a little. But that’s a totally different issue – I’m always going to have these negative feelings for these girls because I don’t like the way they behave, but it’s about keeping it all in perspective. It’s not like my guy wants to see this girl, he just can’t avoid her. But it drives me up the wall =(
answerer 3 – I see your point, and I know I must sound self indulgent comparatively. Perhaps I shouldn’t have included the example, it was possibly not a good one to use. I KNOW it is totally innocent…that’s not actually the point. And I’m volunteering in a prison workshop scheme this semester, so I’m gaining an insight. But it doesn’t really help me keep things in perspective when I’m bogged down with it all. Yes, I’m very selfish. I’m just trying to muddle through.
answer 4 – I know I can’t control it…I wasn’t aware I was trying to? You say I need to focus on controlling my own behaviour not my boyfriends…I believe I AM trying to control my own behaviour, hence the question! I appreciate advice but sometimes people just get it so wrong and start saying some cold things without actually reading the details. I’m not an idiot – I’m not trying to control my bf, nor did I give any reason for you to think that. I am trying to control my own behaviour – why do you think I asked the Q in the first place? Again, I do appreciate input, but not input that accuses me of being controlling and immature or naive. I’m neither. Sorry to sound defensive.
answer 4 – I know I can’t control it…I wasn’t aware I was trying to? You say I need to focus on controlling my own behaviour not my boyfriends…I believe I AM trying to control my own behaviour, hence the question! I appreciate advice but sometimes people just get it so wrong and start saying some cold things without actually reading the details. I’m not an idiot – I’m not trying to control my bf, nor did I give any reason for you to think that. I am trying to control my own behaviour – why do you think I asked the Q in the first place? Again, I do appreciate input, but not input that accuses me of being controlling and immature or naive. I’m neither. Sorry to sound defensive.

Break things down into manageable portions and focus on one thing at a time. And if something goes wrong, look at the setback as temporary and think of HOW you could solve the problem using the above small pieces method.

As to the other chick, I was possessive of my boy too until I knew I could trust him. Your feelings are normal, so don’t obsess over them and have a little faith in your man.

Can anyone recommend me any films made by female filmmakers with older woman & younger man relationship plots?

Can anyone recommend me any films/movies made by female filmmakers/movie-makers ex. by women directors, writers based on age disparity plots between a younger guy and a woman, in other words older woman & younger man relationship plots? And hopefully I will be able to get them in my part of the world which is in Fiji.

Harold and Maude, a classic Movie, but not made by female moviemakers, directors

Can anyone recommend me any films made by female filmmakers with older woman & younger man relationship plots?

Can anyone recommend me any films/movies made by female filmmakers/movie-makers ex. by women directors, writers based on age disparity plots between a younger guy and a woman, in other words older woman & younger man relationship plots? And hopefully I will be able to get them in my part of the world which is in Fiji.

Seven Beauties, written and directed by Lina Wertmüller

How to you get a man with low self esteem to do what you want?

Ok he’s waaaay too scared of getting into another close relationship. We love each other, he’s always there for me, but he has SUCH low self esteem that he’s too scared of doing anything in the relationship.
How do I get him to get over it? Get over his fear and just jump in, I’m not going to hurt him.
How do I get him to get over it? Get over his fear and just jump in, I’m not going to hurt him.
How do I get him to get over it? Get over his fear and just jump in, I’m not going to hurt him.

tell him you love him, and give him his space until he becomes a man, which means leave him to himself until he comes to you for help and advice, and just continue to remind him how much he means to you, and what you are willing to do for him, which is to leave him alone until he changes. if he chooses to stay they same, he never loved you enough to change to begin with.