I want a casual relationship – no strings attached – sexual relationship with a man. Have put ads on the net and I have decided to meet a few men.

My situation is this: I am a carer for my father (who is disabled) and my brother who has learning difficulties.
I also work part time and trying to study to improve my prospects.
All my relationships with men have failed because they cannot handle the impact of my responsibilities.

But I am very highly sex and and need to be sexed.

I have never done internet dating – and I am nervous about the whole thing. I will obviously meet the men in public places etc.

How do I go about asking for sex, without seeming too pushy or scary? Will men get put off by this ?

Would love to hear from men who answer these NSA type ads for some advice about the pitfalls, dos and don’ts.

I hoping to have a regular "arrangement", but want it to work. Thanks

The problem, essentially is your whale-like physique.
As they say,
"Keep the breasts, lose the rest!"

Women file for divorce 75% of the time. Is it possible that with alimony, community property, and child support that men’s value to committed relationships is lesser? I mean, let’s face it, with that in mind, women have less to lose and if you’re having relationship difficulties it would be easier for them to call it quits since they stand to lose the least out of the deal.

Yes, the laws are definitely in women’s favor. There are a small percentage of women that get screwed because they make more money. However, most of the time women get the house, car and kids. Then she gets child support and sometimes alimony to buy something for her new boyfriend. If that wasn’t enough, there is the "presumed fathers law" which means that a man is presumed to be the father of a child even if his wife got pregnant by another man. Does this sound like a fair deal to you? Sorry if I sound bitter but I’m just stating the facts. I’m actually a single father but I’ve known many guys screwed by the system.

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 6 months. I am very much in love with him, but he has said time and time again thatdoesn’ttt have the same intensity of feelings for me because of all the rocky times we have had in the beginning * he cheated on me, i found out and since ididn’t trust him i began to nag which kinda made it hard for the first few months* now he is getting ready to move out of town and I really dont want him to go but he says he has to and not only that, he does not want me to go with him. SO here are the series of questions I have for you all

1. what are ways that I can make him want to stay or at least want me to go with him? And Is it dumb for me to try and make him stay

2. AND THIS QUESTION IS FOR MOSTLY MEN: Is it true that if you want a guy to come to know the error of his ways the best thing to do is ignore phonecalls and back off for awhile to see if they care?? and if they dont respond to that then they dont? My other issue is…what if by ignoring him it drives him away instead of pulls him in closer??

HELP! i love this person dearly but at the same time I dont want to be a fool!!

any advice would help! thanks!

sounds like he has made his feelings pretty clear
you are wonting to make him feel something he does not

as hard as it is move on
you need to be with someone that loves you as much as you love them

after all he cheated on you and then says he doesnt love you as much coz you nag him

move on love you can do so much better

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Please give me advice. I date a diver and he is offshore for 2 weeks. We are exclusive. He has been offshore for 8 days. I can only talk to him buy email but he came onshore today at the dock. I called him and he said he couldn’t talk for more than 8 mins. bc he was shooting pool at a local bar. I asked him to please step aside and talk to me for at least 10 mins. He said he couldn’t bc it was raining outside and he was shooting pool. he said he would call later if he had service or time. if not he would email later tonight or today. Do you think I should write him off? I mean he could of talked to me I haven’t seen or talk except by email.to him in a week and I won’t for another week or so. i just wanted to talk to him before he got back on the boat. He could of called after his pool before he got on the boat. Am I being need or is he being an ass?

Tell him you need attention. If he can’t give it to you, then move on. No need to email and all that. Just stop communications. If it is meant to be HE SHOULD be doing the reaching out. Not you. Let the man be a man.

Men in relationships: what can make you feel like a failure?
What are things in close relationships that scare you or make you feel like a failure? Or like you’ve disappointed your partner?

A woman who finds constant fault in your behavior, tastes, and efforts to just be yourself.

One who pouts and is overly sensitive.

A nag who must have things done her way and her way alone.

Well there is this guy that I really like. I told him that I liked him and he’s told me that he likes me. Well we hung out some this weekend for a couple days and it was really nice and laid back. I cooked us dinner. We made desserts together and watched movies. We also had some sex. He showed me pics of his fam and friends. He also let me take some music from his computer. He is really sweet and I really like him alot and, I want to take it further and initiate a relationship but I don’t know how and what to say and if it is too soon. I don’t want to scare him off or seem desperate. He left my house one day and came back the next afternoon and he asked me if I slept in my bed the night before. I thought it was kinda odd that he would ask me that but, I know for sure that he thinks that my ex is still around. The day he left my house for good, he left one of his empty cologne bottles in my room. What does that mean, what is he trying to do? Mark his territory? I am in need of advice.

Let him know that your ex is not in the picture and you are interested in him only. See how he reacts. Don’t over think the relationship. Just enjoy it as it happens and everything will fall into place.

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Been ‘dating’ this guy for 2 yrs. Mostly we do the ‘deed’, and maybe grab dinner or hang here and there. We used to once a week, now it is more like 2x month. He has stated over and over, he does NOT want a relationship. But he says things like "I love you" when he is drunk, and he has told me, and my best friend that I am the "perfect" girl in every way, but he just does not want anything more at this point in his life. He is 34, I am 28. He says he loves being single. When we are together, we have so much fun. We laugh, we have intelligent coversation, good sex, ect…

So what is really going on in his head? It’s hard, cause I have feelings for him. I am smart enough to know though, if it has not happened now, it never will.

So questions are: What is your feedback on the situation in general, and is there anything I can do?

Detailed answers, please. 10 pts for grabs.

if you want my honest opinion! when hes saying he loves you, thats the beer talking. does he say it when hes sober?, i cant see no future for you with this guy. i dont want to upset you(i wouldnt do nothing to hurt you)but it sounds to me like all hes after is some nooky. if hes a alcoholic, there wouldnt be no future for you, thats if he is one. if he doesnt want a relationship by this time, then its clear he doesnt want 1. best thing for you to do, is find someone else.