What do women see in these men?
I see a lot of nice men not in relationships, and a lot horrible, nasty abusive men IN relationships.
I’m a little miffed at this phenomenon. I don’t want any more bad guys in this world.
It’s bad enough.
This is like why I don’t want to have children, because I don’t want them to live in a world filled with psychopathic misogynistic narcissists.
My mum is going to be so upset at me.
@ TGB, you’re right! I’ve been seeing a lot of horrible nasty individuals in relationships, and it’s amazing.
Bad people get into relationships easy, as the saying:
"easy come, easy go"
"garbage in, garbage out".
On the other hand, nice guys and girls need time to actually think about what they want in a relationship, and how to make it work for them to last for lifetime. It takes a great deal of time and effort to establish a great loving relationship that will make both partners happy and achieve great success together.
I’ll use an analogy here (education v.s. work)
Those who choose to work early in life to gain money, they drop high school or drop university to get a job early. It’s good for them at first, but their careers gets bad after a while and they earn very little.
Those who wait, invest in education and postpone work until they have got enough education and training, they don’t earn much at first. But later on, they get better careers and earn much more.
Same things goes in a relationships. Bad guys have fun and mess around, but they end up being lonely when their women know they’re bad/liars/whatever. On the other hand, nice guys find it hard and confusing to choose Mrs. right, but once they do find her, they love her so much and spend the rest of their life with.