I am 23 and pregnant with my second child. My fiance’ and I have been engaged for about three months. He is 25. My question is WHY does he always flirt with other women in text messages and on facebook? And tried to hide it like he doesn’t even talk to girls. I KNOW he isn’t physically cheating, because we are always together, but I still don’t understand why he feel he needs to flirt with these other women? I dont get it. I most certainly do not flirt with other men!

me and my boyfriend are both 20 and have been together for almost 4 years.
my boyfriend talks on facebook and texts other girls and also tries to hide it from me. i’ve read quite a few of his messages to one girl and although he’s been back for the summer and hasnt seen her by the way he talks to her in messages he is definitely flirting with her, even though he says he isnt.
i think its just a guy thing; my boyfriend and i are together quite a lot but i think because flirting isnt physically cheating, its kind of a way to get that exciting feeling that you dont get in your day to day relationship? I do not flirt with other men either and i get quite angry with him for flirting but cant really do much..! you know he isnt physically cheating on you so i wouldn’t worry too much especially as you’re pregnant. i really do think its just a male thing! x

I think black women and white men fit better than white men and white women or black men and black women. That’s just nasty and only idiots date their own race

For you believe this to be true..

What might have cause me to feel this way?I want to destroy men and destroy peoples relationships when they look happy together.No man has asked me out and it makes me extremely angry.Some of them have even rejected me for sex!!
I am fed up.
hey lol I kinda do sound similar to Miss Havisham

It’s normal. You’re just angry by how much they’ve hurt you and your self-esteem. You remind me of Ms. Havisham in Great Expectations by Charles Dickens.

I am an American woman and my significant other is Turkish. How do Turkish men treat their women? Are they distant? Nurturing? Anything? Thanks. I am not sure if he is sincere, this is why I ask.

Turkish men are excellent lovers and husbands who can easily adapt every situation for the women they’re in love with. According to my personal observations, the problem with marriages between American women and the men from other nationalities including Turks stems from American women rather than their husbands as American women are generally raised with prejudices towards the other nationalities in their own country.

Don’t let people feed you with irrational stereotypes regarding Turks by indulging your American woman instincts. My advice to you is to think if you love him as much as he loves you and try to clear your mind from all the perejudices towards the people from other cultures and nationalities.

I’ve never dated one. What is the relationship like and how is it in the bedroom?

CAPRICORN – The Go-Getter
Patient and wise. Practical and rigid. Ambitious. Tends to be good-looking. Humorous and funny.. Can be a bit shy and reserved. Often pessimists. Capricorns tend to act before they think and can be unfriendly y at times. Hold grudges… Like competition. . Get what they want.

Basically, i want to read a book on relationships with male and females written by women like on the power of men. Or
a book on women in a abusive relationship or been raped
or sexual fantasies
I need to read one from each sort of topic for a project im doing. can someone recommed please.

anything about j. edgar hoover… O.o

I am not really bothered by porn use if he is just getting off from watching two people have sex (in other words, if it’s purely visual). However the idea of a boyfriend masturbating to thoughts of him having sex with the women in the video really hurts and feels like a form of cheating to me.

I’m in a relationship now and I can’t watch porn. I start thinking about my girlfriend and feel that it’s wrong to see other women naked and having sex. I’m only 16 too.

Like, many men are okay with just having a short term fling or sexual relationship with women, not marry them or anything. However, if women refuse to marry, men think there’s somethign wrong with them and thus, kind of condescend them. Why the double standards and hypocrisy?
Men have no trouble using women for sex(as women use men for sex too), but if women say they don;t ever want to marry in life, men look down upon them and feel they should marry. Why the double standards?

There’s 1001 answers to this question, it all depends on the person you ask.
Some would say men haven’t evolved much from the caveman days when men were hunter-gatherers and one-on-one relationships didn’t exist. Cavemen tried gathering as many women as they could, some would suggest this was a way to ensure the human race would continue instead of dying out like the dinosaurs.
Conversely there is a stigma attached to a woman that has too many relationships or doesn’t want one man and men while wanting many women don’t approve of women wanting many men.
Just a short while ago a married woman was mere property with no right to vote or own land etc in North America, a practice still maintained in some third world countries.
The answer is quite simply life and society is full of double standards of which there is no easy answer for past people’s thought process changing… which given time it does

And why?

women coz they are sluts can’t satisfy with one man

Men always go for women with the best looks and think with their penises, always being after sex. However, we think pragmatically & logically, so aren’t we smarter than men? Also, is it often best to NOT be with men, since all they care about is sex from women, nothing else? To keep ourselves safe, is it best to avoid men? We don’t need men.

Only to perverts