If you know the Moon and Venus Signs please add those too.

Thanks

And what’s your Sun?

I have a friend who is a Gemini Sun, Leo Moon, and Gemini Venus. I’m not in a romantic relationship with him, nor will I ever be, but I have been present during his past, numerous, relationships. As a well intentioned observer, perhaps I can share with you my experiences.

This one, for me, is the epitome of Gemini (Mercury and Midheaven in Gemini, too.) There have been times when I’ve really appreciated and enjoyed his conversation, while there have been others where the sight of him would just want make me want to put my hands over my ears. Chatter was amusing, but could easily get annoying too.

In terms of relationships, he never gave off the impression that he was committed. But, as far as I’m aware, he wasn’t unfaithful either. Friendships/lighter unions may be more important. He seem to work harder at maintaing our friendship than he did his relationships. And the only point I’m trying to make with that is the value he put on friendship.

Charming, but he lacks depth. What you see (what you hear, eeek)… is really what you get. You get no mystery with the twins.

We have remained friends, and strictly friends over the years. He’s never tried to get sneaky, and I find that admirable. And, for some reason, I can only imagine such behavior coming from a Gemini.

Kinz mentioned in one answer that: “feminist women i have known have had longer and more successful relationships with men than the non-feminists,. this is because the feminists seek out men who are ALSO feminists, or at least understand the plight of feminism. Therefore, they treat women with respect…”

Although in this forum feminists are attacked as being lonely, fat and lesbians, from what I read, it seems that the majority of feminists are in long term healthy relationships, or have opted to be alone as choice, not because they can’t have a man. The ones that seem sour and very lonely are the anti-feminist posters/ attackers.

I have a very long term relationship with a marvellous man, I respect him and he respects me, and yes I could be called a feminist.
"Trollies", it seems I hit a nerve (lol)

You all came running in a row to answer this question! Please give me a GOOD argument for once. Thanks for your attention

I believe anybody who values herself and can function independently (emotional/mental included) lives a healthier life. Now, whether this translate into long-term relationships with men, I can’t answer. I actually think anti-feminists or those who are not independent are most likely to stay in a relationship due to need, fear, guilt or obligation—remaining in an unhealthy relationship. The last generations are great examples of such. Some husbands cheated and abused and the women didn’t have the financial freedom or social/legal support to walk away.

In conclusion: Feminists in healthy relationships-yes, because a relationship to a feminist is an equal exchange for the right reasons, rather than need.
Feminists in more romantically long-term relationships—jury still out

What are your views on older women, dating or marrying younger men.. I’m not talking about teenage boys or cougars.. I’m talking about role reversal.. acceptance of older men and younger women seems to be OK, but what about the other way around.. Does it make you uncomfortable and why if it does..

It’s never made me uncomfortable. I’ve mostly dated older women. I never planned it that way, it just happened.

I think if you’re a good match for one another, then there isn’t much of an issue. I think when you do start talking about teenagers or "cougers" it can get creepy, just as it’s creepy for a guy to pursue a girl half his age. Notice I said girl, not woman. We call those guys creepy or dirty old men. We don’t really accept it, anymore than we do accept women doing that.

If a man is older, we may also call him a sugar daddy. We don’t say that with admiration. It’s usually meant as a negative comment about the guy and the girl.

Men used to be able to get away with a lot more, than they can now. On the flip-side, I think women can get away with a lot more now, then they once could. The roles are reversing to some degree.

Traditionally, it was said that women pursued older guys, because girls mature faster than boys, and because men used to be the main breadwinners, and women used to seek security.

More and more women are now having careers of their own, so that’s far less of an issue. As for maturity, that’s probably still valid, but I think that some boys mature faster than other, and they may also find maturity attractive.

As long as you aren’t too young, and the age difference isn’t great, I don’t see much problem with it, just as I don’t see a problem with a younger woman dating a slightly older man, under those conditions.

Best of luck in life and love.

I’m an Aries woman (30yrs) that seems to attract needy Cancer men. Relationships usually are great for the first few months but the men really don’t believe it when I say, I really don’t like to discuss my feelings, I don’t know if I want children or to get married and I am ultra focused on my career. I’d rather watch a sporting event or go drinking. Yet for some strange reason time after time I attract another Cancer man. Recently, I started dating a Cancer/Leo cusp man (35yrs) but he’s the same as the rest. One the first date he’s talking about kids, marriage, long-term relationship goals. Should I just let him go right now? HELP
P.S. I don’t date based on zodiac signs but for some reason I do keep meeting Cancer men AND they have very simpler (but not identical) personalities.
Similar not simpler
Lisa. Duly noted.

I’d just let him go. You need to date guys who are also career and work-oriented, not dreaming of a future with kids and a lovey-dovey wife to come home to. I really suggest a sagittarius or a gemini guy.

P.S. I suggest posting horoscope questions in the Horoscope section or you get a lot of unhelpful people just slamming horoscopes. Like that’s what we really need to hear

Has anyone else wondered why Black men and white women relationships are so common? everywhere you go you see it.. but what i don’t get is the fact that if it were not for a black women and a white man Richard loving (white) and his wife Mildred (black) then interracial relationships between any couple would have still been illegal. Why haven’t more black women married white men since it was made legal by a white man and a black women?

(click on the links if you don’t know the story)

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=10889047

http://www.lovingday.org/the-loving-story

I see alot of bashing on this forum between the two races (white women and black men) and i really don’t see why there is so much tension? both know deep down inside that not ALL white men and black women are ugly that there are attractive ones in each race but both seem to be so hard stricken and determined to say that ALL white men and black women are ugly which is why they tend to not date each other.. i don’t get it? Yes i am aware that white men and black women are the third most common interracial relationship BUT it should still be at the top more common then black men and white women since we were the ones that made it LEGAL for them to even date or get married.

Why do i care? you ask, well i care because the love of my life is white and black men seem to stare as if its the first time they see a white man with a black women when we were the ones to make it legal for them and there white girlfriend to date.

I agree with you, i dont understand why its not as common as black men dating white women if not even more so. Im dating a black women right now and I do see alot more of that pairing but your right its not as popular as white women and black men. I dont have a problem with interracial relationships so it does not bother me that black men are dating white women.. i just get annoyed when people seem to make it a problem cause i am dating a black girl. Even if a black guy is with a white girl he would still be staring and my girlfriend and I.. its halarious cause you can tell that he thinks that we are going to have a reaction to them when we dont.

Ive recently met a 31 year old mother of two and she really likes me. I am 22 and we have recently started dating, Someone said it is unusual for the woman to be older than the guy. I also have concerns that people will question the age gap and it will ruin things for us.

I really need to know can older woman yonger man relationships work?

.CAN it work out? Yes. Large age gap relationships do sometimes work out, no matter which party is the older one. However, they do also tend to face some different challenges than couples who are closer in age, maturity, life experience, interests, etc.

So, if you are interested, give it a go. If it doesn’t work out at least you’ll have had the experience. It’s not like by choosing to date her you’re committing your life.

Explore three relationships between men and women in Much Ado About Nothing. What functions as a primary belief between the sexes?

You chose to take the sociology class, so you answer the question yourself. dont post your homework on yahoo answers hoping we answer it for you so you can go out and party.

I personally believe their has been a shift in mindset, and the people don’t want relationships anymore. I believe people are just looking for the next piece of ass where they can get it then the move on. I also think that acting like and asshole (guys) and a slut (girls) has instead being not tolerable, has become expected and tolerated. You see it all the time, people acting like complete morons and assholes and decent honest, hardworking individuals are cast as Boring or wimps. what kind of logic is that?

All I think about is settling down with a long term relationship, but as you said it’s all about who can hook up with who the most. I’ve come to the conclusion that if it’s not going to be long term then it’s nothing at all.

I’ve read that virgo men are very private and don’t rush into anything. I’m a cap and we don’t make a move until we have analyzed and are sure–I’ve read virgos are the same way.
I’ve worked with this guy for months and we finally started dating.He;s really shy, but we’ve already slept together. What does it mean to a virgo man once this has happened?

I’m a Virgo, and i tend to not rush into anything. Around new people i tend to be shy or in large groups. I can go out with mates and meet girls. But i dint tend to rush into it. I sit back and find out what shes like in person. Once i know ill make a move, but i wont rush into anything.

If you´ve already slept with your boyfriend, It probably doesn’t mean anything important. Just carry it on, Virgo´s love long relationships. You will see the true side of him soon. It will just take a while for him to express himself.

Some of my friends have said they are too imitated to approach black women. I guess there is this fear that they will be rudely rejected, at least that was my experience. When I introduced them to my current girlfriend they were all surprised at how kind hearted she was. Are white men worried about being rejected by black women? Or do white men just don’t know what their missing?

Have you been on Yahoo Answers? Half the black girls on here are supposedly with or married to a white guy…

Seriously though. Its because:

White Men:
-are usually not attracted to black women
-are brought up to like white women (and sometimes asian or latin-american women)
-some are afraid of being rejected by a black woman like you have said
-are afraid of dealing with the racist black men who accuse them of "taking their women"
-don’t want to be accused of having a racial fetish

Black Women:
-are usually only attracted to black men
-usually distrust white men and feel that he has ulterior motives
-will not date a white man because of the past history involving slavery and racism
-are also afraid of being rejected (it goes both ways too)
-don’t want to be called sellouts by their friends and family for not dating a black man

I’m very happy for you and your girlfriend and hope it works out for you.