Relationships For Men

I need love advice!?

admin — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 05:16:11 +0000

I am divorced with a 13 year old son, My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now and we have a beautiful baby girl. My boyfriend is ill and is very depressed, not only about his illness, but his employment issues as well. I am trying to be the glue to hold our relationship together, but he is pulling away fast. At the moment we are not living together, but I am in the process of purchasing a home for us, I love him, but please give me advice on loving a depressed man, all the research I have done is either not working or bringing me down with him. I want to be a family… help!

It is hard to be both optimistic and realistic, but that is the best advice I have. Talk to him, make him laugh, take care of him, encourage him. It is a hrad balance, but make sure you don’t baby him, because he needs to come out on the other side of this the same or a stronger man than before.
And I would advise you not to buy a home until you are married.

Why do some people bring up slavery when they voice their dislike for black women/white men relationships?

admin — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 05:16:07 +0000

What has slavery got to do with white men/black women relationships in THIS generation? I thought slavery ended almost a century and a half ago?
Chakra: Your answer makes no sense. What fetish are you talking about retard?

All I can say is this is very sad if they think like that.

Seriously speaking, what is the meaning of Marriage or Common law relationship in the West now for Men?

admin — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 05:16:03 +0000

When Marriage Certificate can be cancelled at anytime without any reason. No false divorce. And the man would have to split half of his property, salary for child support etc…(the divorce industry), with just a VAWA claim, the divorce court would have suck him dry.

So did similar thing happen in common law relationship.

He can be charged with rape/ DV any time his spouse feels bore. That’s worse than living alone: he doesn’t have to worry all the time about jail.

He can only have sex if his wife let him. And if he can’t perform immediately, that would be ground for divorce.

He can’t ask her to do any thing & She can demand him to do anything: that’s the HIDDEN contract, if such condition is not meet, she can comfortably file for divorce.

He has to live by her way or the highway. But not vice versa.

Etc….

If you examine CAREFULLY today relationship pre-set up by the laws, whichever you turn, the man will loose.

There is NO BACK UP SYSTEM for him if the relationship fails: ALL he has, is to rely TOTALLY on the character of his spouse. If he starts the new relationship from scratch, he may run into the same trouble. And still has o pay for the previous relationship.

Wat feminists advice men? "ou have to know and look careful at the woman’s character before you enter a relationship". But how can he do that? Few men are psychologist specialized in Women Behaviour, or psychic reader??

That is ALL of his BACK UP SYSTEM??

On the bargaining table, he must demonstrate a respectable income/ career/ height requirement/ health, sweet talking, pleasing, flower, etc….you name it.

While she only needs to represent herself. Notice that the BURDEN of child bearing/ rearing is only an open OPTION for women nowadays. No man would be in a position to demand it.

In the final analysis, marriage or common law contract for Men in the West is nothing BUT a slave contract, which the slave have to submit to his Master.

Neither did single man fare better.

Women have many OPTIONS/ CHOICE nowadays, but where is Men’s OPTION?

If he strives for a degree/ solid career before marriage, he loose his youth and his emotional/ sexual well-being satisfaction.That is if he’s strong enough to go without women.

If he didn’t do it, he has no bargaining chip: He is undesirable, looser.

He can’t pursue what he dream of because of constant financial burden / emotional stress in relationship.

While women can have her cake & eat it too.

How on Earth has this men’s MISERY befallen upon us?

Your thought, pls.
@KIA: yeah right?? That’s what my beloved feminist sistah told me. Oh, yeah, 500 000 years! Satisfy?
@Kailey:
1/ women have the legal sytem protected her as A BACK UP system if relationship fails, no matter who’s fault. Men don’t.
2/ Common law marriage is automately assigned in Canada, Sweden, etc…whether the man agree or not.
3/ What make you claim to understand Misandristic "Laws" better than me?

But thanks for your usual feministic warp logics.
@Mama Outlaw: I am not Arabic. But I was lucky enough to be born in a culture that vigourously teach how to be a man. Unlike Western culture who only created mostly Feministed Males.

My anxiety is based on reality and experience. Thanks for the concern.

you read everything that i ever had on my mind dude(you are a girl right) and the only resort is to never date or get married, also if you think that’s bad look at this that is going on in india

Men, Math and Marriage

admin — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 14:55:05 +0000

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Dating Tips & Advice For Men INTRO

admin — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 14:55:03 +0000

The dating tips and advice you are about to learn will change your life forever..! http://www.DatingTipsForMen.com – Make SURE to READ the letter on the website, below the video! Click link to see original posting of Ben Ezra’s video…

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Why do people, especially women, keep giving bad advice to men looking for love/sex help?

admin — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 03:01:19 +0000

Some men have trouble finding love/sex in their lives, and they are told such stupid things as "wait for the right person to arrive", "the right person will arrive some day", etc. No, it won’t. When it comes to men, they can’t "wait", they have to LOOK for the right person, because things don’t work the same for men as they do for women. Not only that, but I see virgin males on here who want help losing their virginity, and women ATTACK them just for wanting to fulfill a natural human desire. They say things such as "if all you want is sex, you don’t deserve a woman" and other ridiculous comments, when these very same women probably all lost their virginities at a young age just for being women and having it easy. I’m by no means complaining that women have it easier than men; what I am complaining about is men trying to get help and women attack them like they’re evil just for wanting sex, as well as giving them bad "don’t worry, eventually someone will arrive" advice.
The question is why do they do it?
That’s funny Philosopher, I myself prefer dating women in Mexico for that very reason! Here in the US any and all forms of masculine behavior get turned into "sexual harassment". Can’t we be men anymore without having to worry about losing our jobs? We can’t even tell a girl her dress looks good on her without worrying about her being offended!

Many women are delusional and try to rationalize certain situations. They lack a basic understanding of reality. It’s easy for a woman, because a woman knows that men are just going to approach her and if she doesn’t feel that instant rush, spark, gratifying feeling she might reject, or blow the guy off. They want that instant connection with out putting any work in on creating that connection. Many woman don’t understand that if you give someone a chance and get to know that person you might actually find yourself caring deeply for that other person. Women don’t understand, or appreciate the effort that guys put in when trying to win someone over. Have you ever heard of a woman complain that if the guy doesn’t approach her then he is intimidated and a coward. Many women are hypocrites, because they have no idea what it is actually like to approach and ask someone out. Women are a lot more judgmental then guys are. Woman will jump to conclusions about a guy in the first second of meeting that all he wants is sex, or is a jerk, creep, whatever else when he actually wants to get to know her for her and could possible be the best thing that ever happened to her. Woman tend to stereotype guys. There are a lot of guys that are truly uncaring and cruel and just want sex, but woman tend to lump all guys the same. They fall for the same guy over and over and complain that all guys are the same. The glass ceiling effect is not only in the business world, but also for women in the dating world. I don’t want to sound as if I am ranting, because everything I wrote is purely from an observational point on watching people in action. To sum everything up women give bad advice, because they just don’t realize, nor know any better.

Ladies: Why do you think men in relationships masturbate?

admin — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 03:01:16 +0000

Number one men like to have sex with more than one woman.
Unless you are a shape shifter like the X-Men you are basically screwed.
Relax let your men masturbate to porn.
And yes part of it has to do with the fact that you didn’t get that boob job and you are fat.

not all man are asses.
if you want your wife to get a boob job – you probably don’t love her.

problem with porn is that it make you objectify woman. this way, when a woman don’t make a boob job she is "flawed", because she has real opinions and emotions and don’t succumb to your every wish.
she get fat because you don’t love her, and she turn to food to get the comfort she don’t get from you.

please grow up:
if you want to masturbate – fine,
but if you are an ass, it is your fault.

MEN: Need Relationship Advice… Help! (ladies can answer too!)?

admin — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 03:01:12 +0000

I have been talking to this great guy on MSN for 2 years, but during that time I was in a relationship. I have been single for about a month or so now, and last weekend him and I ran into each other at a local nightclub. We spent the entire night together, and he complimented me and kissed me. He said he was glad we finally met. Then, the next day he texted me, the day after he initiated conversation on MSN, and the day after that he asked me to go out with him on Friday. Well, last night (Friday) we went on a little date. Nothing too fancy, we just went for a long walk and then we just watched a movie at my parent’s house. He didn’t try kissing me or doing anything we just snuggled. At the end of the night he said "we have to do this again sometime". Does he like me? Should I ask him out next time? I really have a huge crush on him and I want him to know I’m really into him without him thinking I’m too clingy. What should I do? I can’t get him off my mind!!!

Just keep talking to him the way you have been and casually mention that you had a nice time with him. If you want to, it would be ok to ask him out on another date. That’s not being clingy.

The Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan – “How The Woman’s Body Affects Men”

admin — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 12:41:07 +0000

The Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan is a Champion of Truth!!!

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Dating Advice – How To Get RID Of A One Night Stand

admin — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 12:41:02 +0000

Sex Advice for men (or women) who need some alone time after a one night stand!

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