i need some advice..i really love this man?

my bf and i are very in love with each other. we have been together for a while but now we are starting to realize we have some differences between us. he wants to live out in the country on a farm..whereas i like the city life. however…i have always wanted a house far away from everything. i dont want to live on a farm and he knows that..however i don’t mind if we have some animals.
i would love a beautiful house in a little bit away from the town. he has this impression that i want to be in a neighborhood right by the city..when that is not true.
he also thinks i only love him because he treats me well. i love him for who he is and because he has a great heart. yes, treating me well does help, but that’s not the only reason i love him. he said that since i have been through bad realationships..the reason i fell in love was because he treated me better. but why would i be with someone who treated me badly even if i did love him?
we talk about marriage all the time..and he seems to think that we have too many differences. however, i told him that’s what marriage is about..you come to compromises on the differences and you make sacrifices.
we always have fun together and make each other happy and we love each other so idk what the problem is. yes we have differences..but why walk away when we are happy and are in love?
what should i tell him? i need some help.
also..he seems to think im not happy when we just sit around and watch tv or something. when i was with my ex all i ever wanted was for him to hold me and cuddle on the couch with me..but my ex always had to be doing something out and about..so it kinda trained me to be that way. when deep down i want to just be able to stay in with my bf and hold each other while watching tv.
i know the person i really am, and my ex turned me into someone else and its almost as if i put up a wall when my current bf comes around. how can i have more self control so i can get back to the way i used to be where i was truly happy just cuddling with the man of my dreams.
im also 21 now..so i like going out dancing and drinking with my friends..he told me he goes because he knows it makes me happy and it breaks his heart when he wont take me out because he thinks it makes me sad. however in the end im happy he’s the one im with so i would accept just staying in with him. he just doesn’t understand.

sounds confusing!
He sounds like a scriptwriter!
You should be able to do what you want with out him manipulating you!
I don’t know about him, but if you love him, he needs to get out of his box and take a look around, I would say that he is too set in his ways of thinking you are one way, when you are really not!
If you haven’t spoken with him yet, I would suggest it!
Also se what your friends think about him, just by what you say he sounds like he could potentially be bad news…