Dated this guy for a month. Both 30. It’s been casual, just getting to know each other. He was a bit flakey about plans but I gave him a chance b/c he seemed like a nice guy. He told me a couple wks ago that he thought I wasn’t interested in him b/c I never initiated getting together. I told him I liked to follow a man’s lead, to see how things progress. We hung out last Sat. over a wk ago now and had lunch. He told me to text him later that night if I was around. I orig had plans, but they got canceled so I texted him later that night that my plans friend canceled and if he felt like hanging out to let me know. He never responded.. And I haven’t heard from him since. Should I assume he’s over it? Strange b/c he seemed interested. Could he be waiting on me to reach out again? I haven’t b/c I don’t want to seem needy, esp. since he never responded to my last text.. Any ideas??
Call him, show some interest. When texting much of the message you are trying to send him is lost; there is no voice to hear, no intonation, no verbal cues. Try calling, he will be glad to hear from you. We men have no idea what you ladies are thinking.
Have you considered that sometimes a text just never arrives?
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Wait for another week and then text him again maybe?
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depends on how interested you are in him….the first one to cave gives the other the advantage.
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I would let him go.. it has only been a month, he is too fakey to date.
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This is going to sound kind of harsh, but just like the movie….He’s just not that into you….move on and find the guy that reach out to you, and show that he’s truly interested! Good Luck =)
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Call him, show some interest. When texting much of the message you are trying to send him is lost; there is no voice to hear, no intonation, no verbal cues. Try calling, he will be glad to hear from you. We men have no idea what you ladies are thinking.
Have you considered that sometimes a text just never arrives?
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Don’t bother….he probably got a vibe – as wrong as a read it may be – that this was going nowhere and he just isn’t interested anymore.
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An author once said "If You love something set it free, if it comes back it is yours, it it does not it never was." Don’t U worry baby if he has UR number and he wants to be with U he will reach U somehow. If not u have to move along
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well, you have many options and just because you text him doesn’t make you needy. Needy would be texting him 20 times because he doesn’t respond.
I would text him with a "hey whats up". and leave it at that.
it seems to me that you both are playing the "catch me if you can game" you like a man to catch you right? (same here but sometimes I’ve had to step out from my favorites and bite the bullet and give him what he wants)
guys like to be needed/ wanted. You don’t have to go and sleep with him but it’s good to communicate. This text will be the answer.
If he doesn’t reply I would move on…If he does which i think it would be a "hey whats up i’m good its been awhile" or somewhere around those lines then hes interested and wants you to catch him. Because how fun is it if your the only one playing….
guys are like girls in certain areas. to "catch" a guy, give him partially what he wants and you may be able to convince him it’s everything he wants
hope this was helpful
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personal experiance
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