I have been in a relationship for 10 years and love my man very much.
And then, I worked at a company and got to know my employer real well. He was so nice and funny and we had a lot in common (which is unusual due to our age difference)
I then left this employment for a few reasons but mostly because I developed strong feelings for him. It became very difficult for me to face him everyday. He’s also married with children.
I visited him one day and we got talking and then I revealed my feelings to him. He seemed amazed that I felt that way. We then began to talk on the phone, even had lunch together. He’s was very attracted to me BUT he said that he’s AFRAID to fall in love with me.
We promised to keep the situation between the 2 of us (to avoid rumors), and he then exposes our situation to a gossipy co-worker.
I was very angry and contacted him about it.
He said that he was AFRAID to be around me and that we shouldn’t have any more contact… ever.
What does this mean? Please Help!
It means, he doesn’t want to get in trouble. Sounds like he likes you and he might do something that he’ll regret if he’s near you He doesn’t want to get into a relationship with you because he is a married man. Him exposing your situation to a co-work could be just needing advise. He doesn’t want to put himself in a situation where you and him get into this affair, and then he’ll get caught by his wife and then there goes the marriage, next comes divorce, lose half of everything he owns , child support and alimony etc…or he doesn’t want to lead you on and then turns into some FATAL ATTRACTION kind of thing (not saying you’re that kind of peron). Anyways, you’re in a relationship with a single man that you love, why blow it? Stay away from him, that’s what he asked, right?
Good Luck
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This means, he wants to have sex with you but he won’t leave his wife and kids for you. Good luck
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Stay with your man and out of your employers life. You don’t want to wreck a family.
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It means what it means?
That is a sticky situation.
Im in one like it and it is going VERY BAD!
RJ
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He is correct. Leave him alone. He is married
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I didnt read your whole info…
but just to let you know…
you CANT be in love with TWO people at the same time.
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it means….leave him alone!!!
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I think you shouldn’t ruin a 10 year relationship over a little fling, obviously if he told you he didn’t want to be in contact with u he doesn’t feel the same way, plus he has children and a wife, do you really want to be a homewrecker?
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just what he said stay away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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He fell in love with you.
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Girl he is married jus forget him. He doesnt really want you. I cant believe you are willing to throw away 10 years with ur bf for a married man. Besiedes your not in love with himyou’re just having fun and he’s giving u the attetion u need. Jus forget him
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You have a man, he’s devoted 10 yrs to you. You need to honor him and forget what you were trying to do! You deserve to be alone!
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You don’t know what "we shouldn’t have any more contact… ever" means? It means he’s done with you. He’s afraid a silly woman who is in a 10-year relationship yet professing love for her married boss would endanger his job, wife and kids.
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Just walk away…the guys got a wife! you could really hurt her and her kids…
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You have been in a relationship for 10 years, for a reason. There has to be something there to keep you guys together. Keep it that way.
The new relationship that you have going on is happening because it’s exciting and new. There ends up being fause feelings between two people that are married. It really only because it is different.
Remember when you and your current relationship started? It was new, exciting and all that. Something replaced that honeymoon stage and you are still together. Just think about it.
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He is married and has children that is your huge RED LIGHT.If he is ready to leave his wife-let it be his decision-you don’t want to be part of that. If he leaves his wife-then something could come of this if it’s what you really want. After a ten year relationship maybe it was just the attention you were getting that you liked. We tend to take each other for granite sometimes. Make a date with your guy,make him feel special again and see if he does the same for you
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that means that you acted a little bit slow so just call him and let him know that you want to be with him only once and after that you never will see him again. that always work.
then you decide if you want to do it again women always can control us we are always animal without control when is about sex.
don’t feel guilty we do that everyday.
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It means don’t contact him or go around him ever.
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It seems like he is scared and upset that this information was told and he is probably more afraid because the information may or could get back to his wife. The way I would handle this situation is to put myself in his wife or my spouse shoes. Would I like it if my spouse was interested in another person? Would I feel comfortable with my spouse spending time and going out to eat with someone he or she may be interested in. I would ask myself those questions and determine what I would do. If your not happy with your man just leave him so he want get hurt by you cheating on him and try to get the other man, but remember that he has a family of his on and you want just be hurting his wife but you’ll be hurting his kids as well. You don’t want to be known as a home wrecker. Think about the situation and do the right and smart thing.
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It means, he doesn’t want to get in trouble. Sounds like he likes you and he might do something that he’ll regret if he’s near you He doesn’t want to get into a relationship with you because he is a married man. Him exposing your situation to a co-work could be just needing advise. He doesn’t want to put himself in a situation where you and him get into this affair, and then he’ll get caught by his wife and then there goes the marriage, next comes divorce, lose half of everything he owns , child support and alimony etc…or he doesn’t want to lead you on and then turns into some FATAL ATTRACTION kind of thing (not saying you’re that kind of peron). Anyways, you’re in a relationship with a single man that you love, why blow it? Stay away from him, that’s what he asked, right?
Good Luck
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He is married and you are with someone else. You should not bother him and he has every right to not talk to you. He wants to save him marriage.
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