I am 25 years old. When I was 21 I fell in love for the first time. The moment I saw the guy I was instantly attracted and fell more and more in love with him everyday. Whenever I saw him I felt like my heart would burst from chest with love. He loved me back too. It was a short relationship, only around 6 months and I have dated guys since but never felt a fraction of what I felt for him.
Anyway, without going into the details he broke my heart when we broke up when I was 22 and we don’t speak anymore. I cried everyday for months. Sometimes I think I still love him but I know we can never be together again.
The reason for this post is because I want some advice about what to do with old pictures of him. I am no longer his friend on facebook but we are both still tagged in pictures of the two of us cuddling etc. I kept them because he meant so much to me. But i cant deny that even three years later its still hurts when I look at them. Maybe because I don’t think ill ever love another man that much again. Should I get rid of/detag them?
Detag them. Having them always readily available to look at, is like torturing yourself.
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Detag them. Having them always readily available to look at, is like torturing yourself.
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Maybe it would be good for you to just get rid of that facebook and get a whole new one. Also if you have prints of those pictures, maybe put them in a box and put them away. Dont get rid of them, just put them away. Memories are important, but, if you get a new guy in your life, you have to get rid of all the old pictures. *hug* it’ll work out
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Yes, as hard as it may be, getting rid of these photos or removing tags so that you cannot see them anymore is will help you move on. He may of meant a lot to you, but if he broke your heart you have to remember he’s not worth it and stop spending time thinking about him and start concentrating finding somebody new to love. Good luck
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