I want a casual relationship – no strings attached – sexual relationship with a man. Have put ads on the net and I have decided to meet a few men.
My situation is this: I am a carer for my father (who is disabled) and my brother who has learning difficulties.
I also work part time and trying to study to improve my prospects.
All my relationships with men have failed because they cannot handle the impact of my responsibilities.
But I am very highly sex and and need to be sexed.
I have never done internet dating – and I am nervous about the whole thing. I will obviously meet the men in public places etc.
How do I go about asking for sex, without seeming too pushy or scary? Will men get put off by this ?
Would love to hear from men who answer these NSA type ads for some advice about the pitfalls, dos and don’ts.
I hoping to have a regular "arrangement", but want it to work. Thanks
The problem, essentially is your whale-like physique.
As they say,
"Keep the breasts, lose the rest!"
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I think you are honest in your quetions.I think there are many things to be afraid of.You have to be very sure of who you get involved with.Whay about sexual diseases? Condoms arent used in oral sex,and many viruses that cause cervical cancers and now throat cancers are more commonlty seen everyday.What about aids?
I think you will be abused by someone dangerous.There are many crazies out there who are HIV positive , and are angry and want to purposely infect others.You deserve time for yourself.Does either your brother or father have health insurance that provides home care?
Do you have any other siblings that can take care of them so you can get out like you deserve to?A person who would really cares for you may be able to learn to understand your awesome responsibilities you have.Good Luck.
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YOU ARE IN A DIFFICULT POSITION BECAUSE OF YOUR DOMESTIC SITUATION.
IT IS VERY HARD TO FIND LEISURE OR SOCIAL TIME – NOT BECAUSE IT IS NOT THERE – BUT BECAUSE YOU FEEL GUILTY WHEN YOU DO FIND IT.
THAT MAKES YOU MORE ANXIOUS TO TRY AND ENJOY IT.BUT YOU ARE IN DANGER OF SUBCONSCIOUSLY "FORCING YOURSELF" ON SOMEONE, WHICH IS A REAL TURN-OFF.
MY ADVICE WOULD BE TO MAKE THE BEST USE OF WHATEVER FREE-TIME YOU HAVE TO SOCIALISE – WITHOUT BEING PUSHY – AND ARRANGE TO MEET THAT PERSON, MAYBE THE FOLLOWING WEEK.
THAT WAY, THEY DON’T FEEL THREATENED AND YOU DON’T FEEL CHEAP.
I THINK YOU WILL FIND THAT YOU WILL GET THE DESIRED RESULT – AND WITHOUT ANY HASSLE OF CHOOSING THE WRONG PERSON OR HAVING A GUILTY CONSCIENCE.
GOOD LUCK.
KC UK.
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The problem, essentially is your whale-like physique.
As they say,
"Keep the breasts, lose the rest!"
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