Ive been friends with this guy for almost 8 years now. Ive dated a couple guys since ive known him but he hasnt. He has low self esteem because hes in a wheelchair and paralized from the waist down and doesnt feel comfy approaching girls. Anyways, halfway through our friendship he admitted to falling in love /w me. We live in seperate states but have visited each other over the years ALOT. We know each other inside and out, have laughed and cried together. I know his family well and he knows mine. I was his first girl since he was paralized thats hes been intimate with. Were both in our lower 30s but he had his accident right out of high school. I love this man with all my heart soul. I admitted to him after my last break up that I was falling in love with him too. So it was official a year and a half ago that we were dating and he was SO HAPPY because hes wanted to be /w me for so long Last year he lost a family member to cancer. He got very distant and one day told me that he found
someone else. This came out of no where and of course has devastated me because I want to spend the rest of my life with him. We are still in contact, we have phone sex still like once a week sometimes more. We have done that alot over the years when we werent able to see each other. Why do you think hes keeping me around if hes /w someone else? Do u think I have a chance down the line. He knows im in love with him, he knows i would drop everything to move there
Maybe a male could answer this, do you ever keep an ex around in case it doesnt work out /w your present one? Am i being put on the back burner in case? 
p.s. only reason he left me was because he couldnt handle the distance and being away from me.
You never experienced a love like this then if you can say true love doesnt exist.
yes,Gwenith>>in your problem u must know two things(somebody you love)and (somebody you like)and the different between those two is>>infront of the person you love him,your heart beats farster,but infront of the person you like him,u get happy.Also infront of person u love him,u can’t say everthing in your mind and in the person u like him u can.The feeling of love start from the eyes and feeling of the(like)starting from the ears.So,if u stop liking a person u used to like,all u need to do is cover your ears.But if u try to close your eyes,love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever.
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no such thing as true love exists
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I don’t know but I just want to wish you best of luck. =]
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sounds like you two have a very strong bond….but to me it sounds like a close friendship and neither one of you want to hurt the relationship you already have……you want to move on and become more……..and he is in a relationship with someone else………..you should try telling him how you feel……….if he dating this girl than he could just tell her its not working but if he is married you shouldnt try to destroy it…….the best thing to do is give time…….but I wouldnt want to wait forever for him to come around……..you might find someone else……… you just have to listen to what your heart is saying………
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yes,Gwenith>>in your problem u must know two things(somebody you love)and (somebody you like)and the different between those two is>>infront of the person you love him,your heart beats farster,but infront of the person you like him,u get happy.Also infront of person u love him,u can’t say everthing in your mind and in the person u like him u can.The feeling of love start from the eyes and feeling of the(like)starting from the ears.So,if u stop liking a person u used to like,all u need to do is cover your ears.But if u try to close your eyes,love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever.
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