I know women ( being the amazing and wonder full creatures that you are ) care more about personality and connection more than looks but in general, would a physically strong woman have interest in a weaker man?
The reason I ask is because, unfortunately two of my friends and I really like the same girl, we all know it and its just a mess. I love these two friends of mine like brothers so i just hate that we are even in this situation but i cant suppress my feelings for this girl. Shes perfect in every way. even in her flaws ( if she had any ) shes perfect. Great morals , same religion , nicest girl ever, the most beautiful woman ive ever met, Sooo easy to talk too. friendly with everyone, amazing family, slightly nerdy. Shes really just the perfect girl, that dream girl you could see yourself marrying.
Physically shes about 5’8 if i was to guess id say maybe 160 pounds, i dunno maybe 150, im not good at guessing womans weight but trust me shes built and amazing.
The other guys are around 5’6 maybe 140 Lbs and 5’9 maybe 165 pounds, and im 5’9 about 195.
Guy 1 is skiiny as a rail, guy 2 is more skinny athletic looking, guy 3 ( Me )ive been into weight lifting for a couple of years and am pretty built.
not to be offensive to my two friends but Im pretty sure that she could beat them both up. What do you think in general would she be attracted to a guy that shes stronger than?
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Some go against the norm but generally speaking girls like a guy who is equal or slightly taller than her.
Now… I’m going to say this very carefully because I’m not certain on its authenticity BUT I have found that when a man finds a woman "perfect in every way" she usually feels the same about him. It’s not often that happens, and I’m pretty sure you know her flaws.
Seriously I’d like the guy to be able to beat me at some point. And I’m like… 9 inches shorter than her and I’m confident I could outdo the other guys you just mentioned. You’re the only one that would give me a run for my money. I’m pretty sure she feels the same.
Do yourself a favour and raise the bar. Become her best friend. Once you have that spot secured you’ll be at her side forever.
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Sure, it’s possible. Although it is thought that we instinctively choose a guy who is bigger/stronger for the "protection" factor, it’s not always the case. She’s more likely to be attracted to the one she feels more of a connection with. I hope that’s you!
"being the amazing and wonder full creatures that you are"
Any guy who says something like that has my vote.
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Some go against the norm but generally speaking girls like a guy who is equal or slightly taller than her.
Now… I’m going to say this very carefully because I’m not certain on its authenticity BUT I have found that when a man finds a woman "perfect in every way" she usually feels the same about him. It’s not often that happens, and I’m pretty sure you know her flaws.
Seriously I’d like the guy to be able to beat me at some point. And I’m like… 9 inches shorter than her and I’m confident I could outdo the other guys you just mentioned. You’re the only one that would give me a run for my money. I’m pretty sure she feels the same.
Do yourself a favour and raise the bar. Become her best friend. Once you have that spot secured you’ll be at her side forever.
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you are forgetting the part where men fancy men and women fancy women. She has equally as much chance of fancying any of you guys or none at all. I think you just need to be yourself, its more important than looks and if she likes you thats great and if she doesn’t, then hey don’t worry about it. You can’t make someone like or fall in love with you. Just don’t forget that your friends are going to be there when she isn’t
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