why do Men love two women at the same time?

I have been seeing this guy for four years now, and at one time we were lovers then all of that changed when he met this other girl. It all stared 3 1/2 years ago when him and I were dating and he just turned on me giving me the cold shoulder. He messes with me and her and any given time that he wants to. I still love him to the fullest, I know that he still cares about and has feelings for me and all. But, he still f$cks with this girl from time to time. I just wish that he would leave her to be with me. He shows me in different emotions that he still cares about me and shows me affection from time to time, but sometimes he gives me mixed emotions. I just don’t know what to think. What should I do? Or what would you do?

I would like to hear from men and women advice. Please…

i would like to say that you express yourself, your feelings, your expectations very well, directly and all these show your self awareness and confidence to yourself. i wanted to congrat you while reading.
secondly, the matter is so annoying. i understadn you still want to be with him in spite of that 2nd girl, but does he worth this after all ? wont you ever think them again ? do you think it iwll be the same again for you ? maybe you want the past beautiful days to come back, i dont know.. i wish you would meet a man who deserves you. that man probably will give up this girl for another girl. do you want a man who leaves you for another woman quickly ? no. you shouldnt.
please try to go out and make new friends for a while. rest your mind away from all those people. try to go to a trip if possible. you will look at things in a very differnt persective and it will be you who will not want to be with him. you just need time to reconsider things.
best wishes.

8 thoughts on “why do Men love two women at the same time?

  1. I was gonna say that you should leave and dont deserve to be played. but then i realized my bf does this too. There’s always that one girl that you compare yourself to and constantly think "well if i could be more like HER, then he wouldnt even be thinking about HER in the first place." You need to talk to him and say "Would you get with her if we werent together for the past 4 years?"
    I asked my bf that and he said yes.
    Maybe we should do something about that and find someone who only has eyes for US.
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  2. Here’s what happens. Sometimes when we start off dating someone, we hold back the real us because we’re afraid, and that person ends up falling in love with that "version" of us, while that version ends up falling in love with them. But there’s still that other part that doesn’t feel loved because it’s never come out, until we meet someone else who we can share that hidden part of ourselves with. We’ve already fallen in love with one person, but now we see other aspects of ourselves falling for someone new and different.

    Basically this happens when we hold our true self back and almost live a lie, not letting all of us show. Because once you find someone who loves you for all you are, then you’ll never bo looking for another.
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  3. Why do women love two men at the same time?

    Answer: Rarely they do (relationships where that is acceptable to all parties excluded), they just f**k em and couldn’t give a stuff about anyone except themselves.

    Same answer to your question.
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  4. Serioulsy…. I wouldn’t put up with that s$%^!! I’d leave his ass!! I suppose that would be easy for me to say coz Im very stubborn!! But you need to start putting yourself first for once.. He aint gonna give up any of you so YOU do it first – hes had his way for too long.. N you gurls have let him walk all ova you – BOTH OF YOU! N the affection thing – thats gotta be shown A-L-L the time, not just when he feels lyk giving it!!
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  5. i would like to say that you express yourself, your feelings, your expectations very well, directly and all these show your self awareness and confidence to yourself. i wanted to congrat you while reading.
    secondly, the matter is so annoying. i understadn you still want to be with him in spite of that 2nd girl, but does he worth this after all ? wont you ever think them again ? do you think it iwll be the same again for you ? maybe you want the past beautiful days to come back, i dont know.. i wish you would meet a man who deserves you. that man probably will give up this girl for another girl. do you want a man who leaves you for another woman quickly ? no. you shouldnt.
    please try to go out and make new friends for a while. rest your mind away from all those people. try to go to a trip if possible. you will look at things in a very differnt persective and it will be you who will not want to be with him. you just need time to reconsider things.
    best wishes.
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