I have been seeing this guy for four years now, and at one time we were lovers then all of that changed when he met this other girl. It all stared 3 1/2 years ago when him and I were dating and he just turned on me giving me the cold shoulder. He messes with me and her and any given time that he wants to. I still love him to the fullest, I know that he still cares about and has feelings for me and all. But, he still f$cks with this girl from time to time. I just wish that he would leave her to be with me. He shows me in different emotions that he still cares about me and shows me affection from time to time, but sometimes he gives me mixed emotions. I just don’t know what to think. What should I do? Or what would you do?
I would like to hear from men and women advice. Please…
i would like to say that you express yourself, your feelings, your expectations very well, directly and all these show your self awareness and confidence to yourself. i wanted to congrat you while reading.
secondly, the matter is so annoying. i understadn you still want to be with him in spite of that 2nd girl, but does he worth this after all ? wont you ever think them again ? do you think it iwll be the same again for you ? maybe you want the past beautiful days to come back, i dont know.. i wish you would meet a man who deserves you. that man probably will give up this girl for another girl. do you want a man who leaves you for another woman quickly ? no. you shouldnt.
please try to go out and make new friends for a while. rest your mind away from all those people. try to go to a trip if possible. you will look at things in a very differnt persective and it will be you who will not want to be with him. you just need time to reconsider things.