I’ve gone out w/ a man 6 times, in the past month and half. We have a ton in common and it seemed we both realized we were a good fit for eachother. That is until a couple wks ago, after one of our best dates, he sent me a text a few days later, asking what I was up to, we were both not doing anything, but he never asked me out. I didn’t hear from him for 5 days after that until I reached out via text, and he ended up asking me out for the next day. Date was good, then he texted me that night and the next day a cute text but then nothing until I reached out 4 days later. He eventually asked me out for that night, but it was last min. and I suggested the next day instead, he said might work. But I didn’t hear from him till 430p that day and so I just didn’t respond b.c. He didn’t make much of an effort. I haven’t heard from him in a few days. What’s going on? Did he lose interest? He would text sweet things after our last dates, so I’m confused. I decided just to wait and see if he reaches out.
Sorry, but it sounds like he is not that into you like he was in the beginning. Sounds like he has taken a step back.
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answer he has more than one gf
It’s pretty easy to see you are one of several he is messing with. He doesn’t have to make a lot of effort because you are all chasing him.
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maybe he is married or attached some where else. It seems like he is just occasionally reaching out. Not totally interested or just too busy for a relationship.
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Sorry, but it sounds like he is not that into you like he was in the beginning. Sounds like he has taken a step back.
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Sounds to me like he’s busy and you’re questioning whether he is trustworthy or not.
I can’t really speculate on his level of responsibilities or honesty as I don’t know either of you.
What I can say is that it doesn’t sound like he has done anything technically wrong – and that you guys like each other. If you have not had sex and do – be prepared for him to be as distant as he has been so far. Consider if that’s an issue or not. Otherwise, relax you guys are just casually dating.
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