I am not your Baby Momma, what do you think of women who are not married and have children shoule we all them a baby momma? I dont think so but let me know what you think about this topic Diva’s
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I am not your Baby Momma, what do you think of women who are not married and have children shoule we all them a baby momma? I dont think so but let me know what you think about this topic Diva’s
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i think the term ‘ …
i think the term ‘baby momma’ is disrespectful but at the same time, we need to up our standards. Sure it’s politically correct to pretend like marriage isn’t important to society, but the fact of the matter is if you look at our culture especialli in the black community, people having children out of wedlock or having children in destructive households has negative affects. at the same time, you shouldnt go into a marriage damaged and immature..you shouldnt have children in that sort of state.
you’re an ex-wife …
you’re an ex-wife thats the mama of his baby. which would still make you a baby mama. I think what april is saying is dont say what you will and won’t be cuz u can’t tell the future. So if it happens to all of a sudden lil miss perfect can’t deal cuz she put herself in a box. u cant’ control 100% of you life cuz sh*t happens. & when it happens to u, u gon want the same respect as anyone else boo!
this is not snow …
this is not snow white!!!! LMAO…. soo tru tho
Where I am from the …
Where I am from the term “baby momma” gets NO respect. It is not a title as you would say girlfriend, wife, fiance. It sounds horrible as well. Even if you do have a child out of wedlock or whatever the case may be, I do feel that it is disrespectful to call the mother of your child that, just considering the way its percieved
the black community …
the black community is on the bottom of the totem pole..im not talking out of my this is researched and backed up for years.Marriage (healthy that is) create stronger families, communities, and thus populations of people..its just us as black people have made it teh norm for us, no other community of people have. i would never bear children for a man that cannot atleast give me a lifelong commitment, put me on the lease, half etc to bear your children..i dont think so we deserve more
i love your vids …
i love your vids but i disagree with you on this one girl…an ex wife holds alot more respect because atleast a lifetime commitment was attempted, and its a legitimate child born in a married couple two people who decided to make a lifelong commitment…in a divorce the woman gets alimony and auto child support. As a babymoma a woman gets raw deal period. if you can decide t make a lifelong commitment to make a child why not get married? only black comm.find it acceptable, and that is why
When you were …
When you were married and get a divorce your the Ex-wife. Not the baby mama but to each it’s own.
Hey girl,I need you …
Hey girl,I need you to do two videos, with your advice, 1st one, why do niggas you been with, that you broke up with, that we have kids with, why they want to be friends, why they keep bringing up the past, and dont leave u alone, and number 2, is another video on, what to do with a jealous ex baby daddy, that has other kids, by some asshole, but keeps trying to creep with u, what do we do, i hope you could make some new videos….
True, guys could be …
True, guys could be rude, but why get married, if there gonna play you anyway, when my ex, calls me babymamma, i call him babydaddy, and when im mad i call him nigga, or sperm donor, hahaha love your videos, god bless u
you look nice in …
you look nice in green, makes you glow, nice!!!
A baby mama is a …
A baby mama is a Rat where I come from. I feel what you saying though. Me and my husband had three kids before we got married, he NEVER called me his baby mama.
That’s good to hear …
That’s good to hear honestly, but I always ask them, “why doesn’t he wanna marry?” if it’s just a piece of paper then what is the big deal to them?
it’s sad that us …
, but we didn’t lay down the requirements before hand…
it’s sad that us ladies gotta demand commitment from a man… what happened to the good ol’ days where they woo us, date us, marry us, have kids, and stay married? I was mad at Steve Harvey @ first, but maybe he’s right, we not only gave away the cookie permanently
I am down with what …
I am down with what u said all the way. And also a lot of times, they’ll be living with sum1, having kids with her and screwing around acting single. Marriage is a commitment where a man is supposed to sacrifice his desire to sow in order to raise and provide structure for his children. Even in those long unions when they don’t have kids, u gonna spend years and years with a person & u still don’t know if u wanna marry them? C’mon now really… 1 party don’t wanna commit, plain & simple.
I agree that …
I agree that calling sum1 a “baby mama” is disrespectful & I know that ish happens where the carriage came b4 marriage. Ideally, I feel like the kids should come after marriage, but know that people gotta adjust to situations that come up. Back in the 50′s most likely if u get pregnant, he marries you, he commits to being a family ready or not. However, my point is, if you’re with sum1 for years popping out babies but he don’t wanna get married is it cuz he thinks the grass is greener?
b4 i watch the vid, …
b4 i watch the vid, i must say that dress iz smokin’!
thanks for keepin …
thanks for keepin it real sista
me and my mom love …
me and my mom love looking at this show.WE LOVE YOU.TREND SETTER/TOP OF THE LINE DIVA.
Yeah the whole ” …
Yeah the whole “baby mama” thing is just not cute on the whole. I mean my husband calls me that and I call him “my baby daddy” but we’re just playing and we don’t say it to or in front of other people. Just to each other. And as far as marriage goes like I said in the previous video to each his/her own. Ultimately, the decision is based on a person and their personal choice not someone elses. Good video as always April.
More verses:
Gen 2 …
More verses:
Gen 2:24-25
For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.
The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.
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Divas,
all the truth you could want is truly found in the bible and the lost books/apocrypha of the bible….so get out of the “system” and start learning how the Most High created things to be…..
Genesis 24:64-67
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Genesis 24:64-67
“Rebekah also looked up and saw Isaac. She got down from her camel and asked the servant, “Who is that man in the field coming to meet us?” “He is my master,” the servant answered. So she took her veil and covered herself.
Then the servant told Isaac all he had done. ISAAC BROUGHT HER INTO THE TENT OF HIS MOTHER, AND HE MARRIED REBEKAH. So she became his wife, and he loved her; and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death…
the act of sexual …
the act of sexual intercourse is the covenant between the Most High (GOD) and mankind because it is through this act that we allow our fulfillment of the command to “be fruitful and multiply”…..
so “IF” someone calls you a “baby momma”…let them and them ask them where is that in the bible because by you entering into the act of sexual intercourse you already commit yourself to (spiritual) marriage at least on a supernatural level…
Real the lost books of the bible for more proof
What I find so …
What I find so interesting is that what most people DON’T REALIZE is that “if” you have sex with someone (at least according to the bible) you are ALREADY MARRIED to them..spiritually married
Adam and Eve, Abraham and Sarah and the list goes on and on..never once in the bible did you see them go down to a courthouse, pay a fee, wear a white wedding dress and etc. In fact, IF YOU ALL READ YOUR BIBLES, you’ll see that in the book of Genesis that Adam and Eve became one FLESH; they had sex folks
100% agree. My mom …
100% agree. My mom and my dad was together for 26 years before getting married. they raised my four sisters and I. Im 18 now and when they got married i was 16. they are still married (even though its only been 2 years) yes 2 years. but when i see them together i’m like “damn 26 years”. not “damn 2 years”. marriage doesnt always mean something will last forever. people should get married when they are ready instead of feeling pressured.
I have never …
I have never considered having kids out of wedlock because of my own personal beliefs, but I still consider “baby mama” a put down and a derogatory term. Regardless of your legal relationship or former relationship, that term means to me “I don’t care about this woman and she is nothing to me, but she has my kid so I have to deal with her.” That is not cool! If you don’t have any more respect for me than that then your sperm has no business inside of me. Real talk!
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