I’m an Aries woman (30yrs) that seems to attract needy Cancer men. Relationships usually are great for the first few months but the men really don’t believe it when I say, I really don’t like to discuss my feelings, I don’t know if I want children or to get married and I am ultra focused on my career. I’d rather watch a sporting event or go drinking. Yet for some strange reason time after time I attract another Cancer man. Recently, I started dating a Cancer/Leo cusp man (35yrs) but he’s the same as the rest. One the first date he’s talking about kids, marriage, long-term relationship goals. Should I just let him go right now? HELP
P.S. I don’t date based on zodiac signs but for some reason I do keep meeting Cancer men AND they have very simpler (but not identical) personalities.
Similar not simpler
Lisa. Duly noted.
I’d just let him go. You need to date guys who are also career and work-oriented, not dreaming of a future with kids and a lovey-dovey wife to come home to. I really suggest a sagittarius or a gemini guy.
P.S. I suggest posting horoscope questions in the Horoscope section or you get a lot of unhelpful people just slamming horoscopes. Like that’s what we really need to hear 
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Horoscopes have absolutely nothing to do with anything in life.
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who the hell dates based on zodiac sign none sense
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I say
it doesnt f u c k i n g matter what your sign is…….. ITS THE STARS FOR CRYING OUT LOUD
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common sense
as a aries..april 13th lol i want to tell you..it doesnt matter! if you like him gooo for it
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YOUR HOROSCOPE MEANS NOTHING. It has absolutely nothing to do with real life.
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dude does it really matter if hes a cancer or not? thats really nothing. me and my friend who have the exact same birthday are so different. anyway, if hes talking about u guys getting married, just say that its a little rushed. personally, i would wait till he brings it up again
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I’d just let him go. You need to date guys who are also career and work-oriented, not dreaming of a future with kids and a lovey-dovey wife to come home to. I really suggest a sagittarius or a gemini guy.
P.S. I suggest posting horoscope questions in the Horoscope section or you get a lot of unhelpful people just slamming horoscopes. Like that’s what we really need to hear
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i agree with sterling.
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Well, you have some luck there, same Zodiac signs and similar personalities and ideas. Well, I have no idea, I don’t believe in superstition. However, since he’s clearly into long-term relationships and you’re not, just dump him. On the next date tell him that you’re not into the marriage thing and end the relationship in a civil way, bleh. I don’t blame you. However, I think most men in his age group are into long term relationships so you shouldn’t blame it all on the sign.
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The long and short of it: What does the "sign" one is born under, have to do with the price of tea in China? Horoscopes are written, by people who pretty much have nothing else to do, -like me, right now, which is why I’m wasting time on this. "Fortune-tellers" are all hucksters; nothing more, nothing less. If you are, as you say, focussed on your career, then, a bunch of superstitious nonsense is not going to be of any help in that endeavor. The fact that a 35 year old guy talks about wanting kids merely reflects that THEIR biological clocks are ticking, -as should yours be. Face it, -you’re already at the "top o’ the hill". If you have any intentions of having kids, you’d be wise to find "Mr. Right", or …settle for the next best, -before you’re "over it". -Tick-tick! See: Yellow Pages–>Dating services. Have you tried church socials? -Best o’ luck to you.
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Common sense, and firm Christian faith (-in spite of all the sex-scandals rocking my church).
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hi lisa,
im a cancer man (41), dating an aries (2nd date coming up in a view days!!) im very much into this wonderful woman (29) so, strolling on the net brought me to your question..
the people above are right when they say: astrology is not the final thing to decide on. nevertheless, i admit that cancer-man share the same characteristics.
but…..
(this is important)
there are two cancer-man: the first has a problem with his mother / is to much attached to her (in cancer world this is the same). the 2nd one overcame any bad or good influence of her and is a free thinker.
this is the cancer-dilemma: the mother.
if you show cancer you respect his feelings – whatever they are – towards his mother/family, he will feel, you ‘mother’ him (this doesn’t mean he is a sissy, but mother-energy is something he needs to grow as a man in a relationship) cancer needs to be ‘heard’ by the one they love. giving him understanding makes him change patterns that you dont like.
dont force, with being impatient!
you – aries – needs patience in that!! (hard huh?)
on the other hand.. a cancer grows, florishes…. when he is ‘needed’. but..aries does things on her own. dilemma?
yes and no.
you will find out that if you tell him that he inspires you, to get the best out of yourself, etc.. he will feel, he was ‘needed’ (hence: he is satisfied in his romantic feeling towards you) and you… can do your thing, in your own way, like you aries woman do their things with a lot of courage!
hope this makes sense..
at the end: follow your heart and not astrology!!!
good luck, peter
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