I am an American woman and my significant other is Turkish. How do Turkish men treat their women? Are they distant? Nurturing? Anything? Thanks. I am not sure if he is sincere, this is why I ask.
Turkish men are excellent lovers and husbands who can easily adapt every situation for the women they’re in love with. According to my personal observations, the problem with marriages between American women and the men from other nationalities including Turks stems from American women rather than their husbands as American women are generally raised with prejudices towards the other nationalities in their own country.
Don’t let people feed you with irrational stereotypes regarding Turks by indulging your American woman instincts. My advice to you is to think if you love him as much as he loves you and try to clear your mind from all the perejudices towards the people from other cultures and nationalities.
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Its difficult to generalize Turkish men because we are really very different then each other.
Basically, we are jealous. We like foreign women more than Turkish women. We are very protective. We are not that how-to-call metro-sexual? but hard guys like in the Godfather movies.
It varies with education level. If this guy is in America it means he got a good education and a perfect guy but I cant say the same thing about the waiters working in hotels at seaside of Turkey.
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there’s only 2 things you really need to worry about…
Sex…. always be willing and
Cook…. as good or even better than his mother,
Accept that he might stray and have it off with even your mothers sister,Turkish men just love women to a Turk all women are gorgeous in all shape and sizes and all ages except under age.But in return you will get loyalty, honesty,dedication,respect .love and lots of sex……Try and change the man well you will only get disappointed eventually
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Turkish men are excellent lovers and husbands who can easily adapt every situation for the women they’re in love with. According to my personal observations, the problem with marriages between American women and the men from other nationalities including Turks stems from American women rather than their husbands as American women are generally raised with prejudices towards the other nationalities in their own country.
Don’t let people feed you with irrational stereotypes regarding Turks by indulging your American woman instincts. My advice to you is to think if you love him as much as he loves you and try to clear your mind from all the perejudices towards the people from other cultures and nationalities.
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Only problem other than cheating I forsee
is racism, as you are already witnessing
yourself by Turks who insist American
women are instinctively racist, hahaha,
American women are the least racist women
of the world ,living in the most diverse
and democratic country in the world
I would say has very much to do with it..
American women =all ethnics..
Unless you are a nutcase, he is very
lucky to have such an unbiased, and
fair view of the world in his life..
Hope you will find the same in him..
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I don’t think you should let his race determine your relationship, but from what I know of Turkish men, these are the attributes I see in all (even Australia born second generation ones) Turkish men:
1. Chivalry – not too old fashioned, but they will not let a woman pay for a date, they will always offer their jackets when she is cold, and so on & so forth.
2. Pride – very very proud, don’t step down easily, but also very reasonable, will know when to swallow it, especially for the woman they love.
3. Patriotism – self explanatory
There are heaps more but they’re the ones that appeal most to me. Like the others have said, cooking better than his mum is definitely a bonus. Give him a good meal and he will treat you like a queen! Good luck!
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Turkish background
As an American woman, who, just months ago, was going to give up my whole life and live in Turkey, with my ( then) fiancé(but he never really asked me to marry him), I can say from personal experience ( and loving him for many years, and I still love him, I will live him forever), that being American and having known him for so long a time, I could never be accused of prejudice, no way! I never had anything against Turkey, or Turkish people. Relations break like any other, international couples who blame this on prejudice or rasicm, might not understand these words as we do. Anyways, here is some personal advice: please visit him in Turkey. And have him come to see you in America a few times. (we did this) and it was a great thing. I can’t and won’t give u generalization of Turkish men cos I have only one I know.. All I can say is just love the guy and even if he is coming to America to live, visit his home and family there, a couple of times if possible. I loved the Turkish malls and food! I wasn’t happy with no electric dryer. This was a great surprise to me. ( but of course not the reason we didn’t marry!) I still love him,and Turkey, just think hard before u marry anyone, if they live in another country or down the road! I wish you the best!
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Experience
I know many American women who got married to Turkish men. They are all happy couples. Their husbands treat them like the queen of the house. Those women love everything about us.
Other day, you have asked about going to get married to him next year. I think you are almost sure he is the right person for you.
Wish you both the best:)
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My cousin (who is American) is married to a Turkish man, they’ve been happily married for 9 years; and have three beautiful children. He also has some other men in his family who are engaged to Americans. I think it’s all about understanding each other, and know where each other’s backgrounds come from. If there is understanding and acceptance, I think any relationship could work out. Then again, if there is true love, then understanding each other’s cultures and wants wouldn’t be any problem.
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If you don t look like Cybil Shepherd or something i d take a lady from Diyarbakir Van Mardin Urfa some of our coolest cities.
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