Apart from what most women mainly from men is children (which is a turn off because I never want kids) and money, what do they really expect from men when entering a relationship?
I don’t want kids, never have. I’m sure my biological clock was never wound. I don’t care for diamonds or shiny baubles. You could steal flowers from the neighbors garden, as long as they don’t see you i won’t care. (I like a gamer too 
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Anyhow..women want someone to understand them. Someone they can trust.
An honest, faithful, funny guy that is their best friend and lover, who will make them feel safe and loved.
LindaLoo & PB basically have it down.
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Honesty, monogomy, intimacy. A friend and a partner, comfort, to feel safe.
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ALWAYS faithful
Commited
Happy/humorous
No anger problems
Romantic
Knows to be serious when needed
Attends family gatherings
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Every drop of blood
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For the man to keep his D*%K in his pants.
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I want a forever friend & loyal lover.
It’s 50/50 now with bills & house work, the days of the man bringing home the bacon in this economy is over. Be a team player, women love that.
COZ–You’re stereotyping, not all women are like that!
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You already hit it…MONEY. Well, not so much money as much as the things money will buy them.
Women don’t care if your a good man, kind, considerate, caring & loving. You can be the biggest a$shole in the world & screw around on them every other day as long as you buy them something shiny on a regular basis.
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* * * everything * * *
in no particular order
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From what I’ve seen in here (Y/A Family & Relationships) , I would say they expect everything. They want you to work, pay all the bills, cook, do all the house work, and raise the kids. They want great sex or no sex. That one is a toss up. One thing is for sure, even if you managed to pull it all off, you will still be sorry, a*hole. There is just no way around it.
Oh yeah, one other thing. You must worship her because she is perfect.
Go ahead, thumbs down me. Just check out the rest of this section. It backs me up. It is always the man’s fault. Poor judgment (as in picking the wrong guy) never comes in to play. Being a nagging b*tch never has anything to do with it. It simply the fact we are male.
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love and understanding. honesty and loyalty.
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A competent human being to be my best friend and partner in every way – a life buddy.
Who is able to reason from other peoples shoes, who is fair and just, who can share, who is affectionate, who is sensitive to how their actions affect others and to what I need, who doesnt make selfish decisions, who will do his part to keep things fresh and new for us,
who will not forget to make me feel attractive and feel that he wants me, who doesnt look at other women, who is more intelligent than almost anyone else but also kinder than almost anyone else,
doesnt look down on women — I could go on endlessly actually (and there are a zillion unstated requirements like not putting me down, not yelling, not hitting, etc etc but those are all assumed).
All these things I do for my man, too, and I completely expect from him.
Fortunately I found a man good enough to give me these things… and we are madly in love.
He doesnt have to try, he is just a great person. Other women want these things too, but they settle for less cause there are so few men who are capable of being exceptional and unselfish that they fear they dont exist at all.
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i expect respect, trust, loyalty. and honesty, i dont care about the money, kids are great but if ur partener wants kids u dont, its not gonna work. for me and my bf…i mean…we both like kids and if we have kids great if we dont…great.
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It keeps changing I still can’t figure it out? Men are from Mars & Women from Venus.
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Well in reality women more often than not EXPECT too much – truth be told! AND what we want, hope for, desire etc is sometimes unrealistic and seldom the same thing the MAN wants – and we aren’t even talking children & money!
I’ve NEVER entered a relationship thinking about children or money!
I want honesty, communication, affection, attention, recognition, loyalty, trust, humor, fun, common interests, TALK TO ME, share with me, show me sensitivity, emotion, human-less. Show me that I MATTER more than the TV or the blasted computer or the MAIL delivery or newspaper everyday! NOTICE how I look, what I wear, appreciate what I do for you, be grateful for what I do… be a gentleman, open my doors, walk hand in hand with me, be romantic… LOTS and LOTS of things are far more important and of lasting value in a relationship then MONEY. ONCE you are married of course and HAVE CHILDREN then they become the focus – because they are needy and helpless…. but without or before children – MAKE HER the focus and that’s what most women really want most I think!
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Married 22 years with 4 kids.
I a word slave
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I don’t want kids, never have. I’m sure my biological clock was never wound. I don’t care for diamonds or shiny baubles. You could steal flowers from the neighbors garden, as long as they don’t see you i won’t care. (I like a gamer too
)
Anyhow..women want someone to understand them. Someone they can trust.
An honest, faithful, funny guy that is their best friend and lover, who will make them feel safe and loved.
LindaLoo & PB basically have it down.
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happiness
support
comfort
love
financial stability
marriage
friend
trust
someone to drive you crazy just a the thought of him
sweet and caring man
romance
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I expect no more than 15hr. a week of video game time. That’s it! Tell Master Chief Nite Nite.!
oh yeah, and no cheating..
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A broad expects:
1. a good feeding
2. entertainment
3. squeeze out a few kids here and there.
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To spoon with them while they sleep at night, to play footsie at the dinner table, for them to cook them breakfast in bed on Saturday after the woman has cooked supper all week, to walk up from behind and give them great big hugs and a sexy kiss on the neck, to hold hands while walking side by side, to do a honey do from time to time and give some really hot nookie. Oh Okay and a couple of babies, preferably one boy and one girl..
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Attention & Affection
Light Conversation
Intimacy (Deep Conversation, honesty & openness)
A Good Father
Financial Support
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His Needs; Her Needs; Building an Affair-Proof Marriage
before i got married to my husband i told him all i expect is: he has to have a career, we buy a home eventually, go on vacation once in a while, stay faithful to each other, communication and compromise, and a little romance once in a while.
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