What is it with guys? One day they like you and call and text you like crazy the next day they wont return your texts. Why do you feel that a woman has to sleep with you in order to even see if she is worth keeping around? And do you guys not feel rude for asking and hinting to women all the time to sleep with you? Do guys ever really just want to date girls or are they just doing it for sex?
If your a teenager please dont even bother adding your two cents.
I’m a teenager and I want a good relationship.
Also, ALL TEENAGE GUYS ARE NOT SEX OBSESSED!!!!!
I HATE that generalization.
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You are talking about boys, Men know what they want either they want sex or relationship. Trust me youll know when a man wants either.
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Relationships are complicated. Sex is not
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As long as a guy has a functional d!ck its all about sex!
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You’re dating the wrong guys. That’s all there is to it. I don’t know you so I can’t tell you where you go wrong in picking them.
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everyone is different
i am nothing like most of my friends! 99% of them just wanna get laid as often as possible by with whoever they can
me, i am not like that! i would not even kiss a girl UNLESS i was mad in love with her… regardless how good she looks
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i am 20 years old
I’m a teenager and I want a good relationship.
Also, ALL TEENAGE GUYS ARE NOT SEX OBSESSED!!!!!
I HATE that generalization.
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I am a teenage guy and I don’t even want to think about sex until after college.
All I want is a good relationship with a descent girl.
IT IS TRUE WHAT YOU ARE SAYING BUT SOMETIMES BEFORE I GO INTO A RELATIONSHIP I MAKE SURE THE PERSON DOES NOT ASK ME FOR SEX OR ANY SEXUAL THINGS"" SO I WANT TO MAKE SURE THE LIKE ME FOR WHO IM MY PERSONALITY AND MY CHARACTER AND ETC. AND YES THEIR ARE MANY GUY’S OUT THERE THAT JUST LIKE A GIRL BECAUSE SHE HAS A BIG BOOB OR HER BUTT IS BIG AND THEN THE MAKE THE GIRL END UP SLEEPING WITH THEM AND THEN ALL THE OTHER NONSENSE BEGGING BUT IM SURE THEIR ARE OTHER GUYS OUT THERE THAT ARE NOT JERK AND TREAT A WOMEN THE WAY SHE IS NEEDED TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT AND DIGNITY AND NOT FOR SEX OR BODY PART’S.
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I’m a teenage guy who used to only want sex until I found someone special
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Overall, most men are confused.
Sex is a conquest to men who aren’t looking to be in a relationship; however, sex it the culmination of the beginning of a relationship for men who want to be in a relationship. Both sides of the coin require a commitment on the woman’s part.
When things are not going as expected, most men will stop and wait for the dust to settle.
I, on the other hand, am not confused.
Thanks
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Sex. Sure they’re boys, but some guys never really grow out of it. You have to understand that most boys, including men, are complete perverts. They look at internet porn all day, and masterbate. They can’t tell you that they "don’t want sex" from you, when they do these things! When it comes down to it, all they want is in your pants.
This is why I am not getting married until I am at least 35. Men are not how they used to be!!! At all. Goodluck finding one that doesn’t want sex.
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We are indecisive, we never put all of our eggs in one basket, we want to see how you operate, we want to get close, but not too close (or we’ll lose all of our other options). For some guys, it’s only about sex, but that’s maybe only 30% of us. I’m not one of those 30%, that’s for sure.
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Maybe you don’t understand nature and the natural programming in people. The whole point is to make more people. Do you get it? All the other stuff that guys and girls do are just a sideshow. When the woman gets pregnant, then nature is satisfied. Think about it.
When people like MarkR tell that sex is a conquest, it shows that he has no idea that he is also programmed and acting like a brainless robot for mother nature’s purpose. You can make up all your own ideas about everything, but the whole point is that baby. Waaaaaa!!
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sex sex sex thats all we want who cares about feelings and phone calls much less texting
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hm… from most of the guys i’ve dated, then yeah they mostly just want you for sex. just play hard to get if you want someone who isn’t just about sex. or try eharmony.com like i did. found a good bf… now i just wish i wasn’t on bcp…
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Look, sometimes I have time to answer texts, other times I don’t. I am a man and I work for a living.
Personally I would rather talk for 10 minutes than text all day. You get the same result.
As far as the sex part goes, you can not say that every man’s motive is to sleep with a woman to see if she is worthy. That is just not true. Wherever you are going and however you are finding these guys you should change your habits a little.
I have never been a "playah." It was well after my time, but I can for sure, even at my age, see them a mile a way. Why can’t you?
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The guys that always want sex are bad boys trying to be pimps and don’t fall for their tricks or they’ll just hurt you.
so I recommended nice guys.
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Women are good for 3 things: Cooking, Cleaning, and SEX! Other than that, women are a bunch of bitchez and whores. So yes, we just need bitchez for sex, and we like gettin bj too.
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Hello, real men enjoy the company of the opposite sex and very strongly believe in relationships. A real man has no use for a sleep around woman. Their is nothing more beautiful than a man and woman in a strong loving and understanding relationship. You have your share of men that are out for only what they can get from a woman and I can’t tell you how to differ from the real man and the guy that is out for what he can get. The guy that is out for a good time only, has no problem finding some one of the opposite sex to accommodate him, their are a many a loose woman out there just waiting for that guy to come alone. You really don’t have to compete with these women, it’s all in where you hang out. I will use the term uptown and downtown to differ between where you hang out at or stay away from. Don’t go down town looking for prime rib, you will only find rump roast. Nine out of ten times it is spoiled. Prime rib is found up town on Park avenue and around the corner on 5th avenue. Prime time is also just across bridge in Manhattan. Stay up town and I assure you their are fun loving good men with strong relationship attributes waiting for you to get there. All men want and need sex sometime, but their is more to a relationship than sex and a real man knows this..
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nothing wrong to want just sex .
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Some women are smart, fun, well rounded, energetic, and contribute to a good lifestyle. These women we want to keep around. If they like to have sex, all the better. Its easier to find out about all the real important traits if you sleep with us, cause , well its just fun to have sex, and build a relationship over time, and without sex, we tend to stray a few times a month- that’s they way were built. So, plan on having us to bed within a month or so, if you think you would like some permanency.
So, there are other girls that have one or two qualities that will disqualify them for long term status, ( eg. lazy, promiscuous, real stupid, unfeminine, or dog ugly) and those girls we just want to sleep with as you say.
Which kind are you?
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Ok let me give you the lowdown.90 percent of guys are dogs.depending upon when girls accept this is when theyl stop being taken advantage of by so many creeps.any guy who says sex is all they want i feel sorry for and that is the 90 percent i mentioned earlier.theyve never been in love before(though theyl claim to know what love is and will try to use that to get into bed with you) so all they know is how good sex is and thats all they look for.for the rest of us (guys and girls) who have a bit more brains,we know there has to be something more deep and meaningful than just sex no matter how apealing sex may seem…and when you realise that ,thats when you find love and see that sex was not the most important thing in the world.and when you see you two are very much in love then sex will just happen when its right for both of you.So dont let the 90 percent dogs get what they want out of you and dont give up on guys and think that theyre all like these idiots.there are real men out there.just ask my girlfriend
.sorry for the speech.
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