How to breakup with a obsessed girlfriend?

Ok so im 15 and i have been dating my gf for 4 months now and shes 14.
I don’t really have feelings for her anymore and feel i have been dating her out of guilt.
I already broke up with her once and she wouldn’t let me go and i went back out with her out of guilt.
I feel i have lost feelings for her and I am unhappy in the relationship.
Any advice?

Dude, if you’re unhappy, then you’re unhappy. Just tell her that and tell her that you’re sorry but you’re ready to move on.

The last thing you wanna do is extend a false relationship, it’ll only ever lead to hurt for you and the other person. Maybe you’re afraid of being mean to the girl or something, or maybe you don’t know how to say it, but you have to do it man.

Just go through with it and move on, and it may take her a little time, but she’ll move on as well.

14 thoughts on “How to breakup with a obsessed girlfriend?

  1. Tell her that you don’t love her anymore. It’s not fair to her if you lead her on thinking you still like her when you wouldn’t want a girl to do that to you.
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  2. There’s no better advices but telling her the truth and if she still didn’t want to let you go, what the hey! Are you two married? No! So just leave her along and give her some time to think. Maybe she’s just not yet mature enough to be in a relationship. On the other hand, if you stay and pretend like everything’s okay, you’re wasting your time to get a new one and you’re hurting her even more!
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  3. Just say no. Just go up to her, and explain the guilt thing. Then say something like "I can’t do this anymore". Idk, something around that.
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  4. Dude, if you’re unhappy, then you’re unhappy. Just tell her that and tell her that you’re sorry but you’re ready to move on.

    The last thing you wanna do is extend a false relationship, it’ll only ever lead to hurt for you and the other person. Maybe you’re afraid of being mean to the girl or something, or maybe you don’t know how to say it, but you have to do it man.

    Just go through with it and move on, and it may take her a little time, but she’ll move on as well.
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  5. The longer you put it off the more obsessed she’ll become. Plus if you’re not happy you shouldn’t have to put up with this out of guilt. What do you feel guilty about anyways? Not being attracted to someone who’s attracted to you? People get rejected all the time, its a hard fact of life. The only thing you should feel kind of bad about is leading her on. Just end it before it gets worse, and do it gently in person. Simply say that you wanna break things off because you don’t feel the way about her that you used too, then offer to be friends and don’t feel guilty about letting her down gently!!!
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  6. 15 and a girlfriend?

    I seriously don’t understand how your society allows this.

    Yes, please break off with her and start concentrating on your studies.

    There’s a lot of time for love.

    Gosh, the decadence!
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  7. dating out of guilt makes it even worse. and thats breaks a girl’s heart even more.
    break up with her by a fone call… not by text bc it shows how mature you can be now and in the furture, say hey we have to talk.. pause.. at the beginning i liked you a lot, but now things have changed more and i dont have feelings as much as i used to at the start,. and im really sorry, but i think we should just have a break.. and go on with someone better for the both of us. so i cant hurt your feelings anymore..and it will make us bot happy to be with better ppl in our lives" end… and listen to what she has to say

    goodluck!
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    never had a bf.. but it comes from my heart 😀

  8. avoid her .if she asks you to come somewhere dont go dont attend her calls easily attend atlast and laugh and say sorry do everything like this she willcry terribly one day and she starts hating you you will be free .look you are doing this for good cause don’t forget its good to leave a relationship like this .try
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