Mature relationship advice needed from Men and Women(preferably ages 20+) : )?

This is going to sound a little insecure, but I truly don’t mean it to. I just need some advice from someone who is more experienced in area’s of relationships.

I’m 20 years old and I’m still a virgin. I’ve started dating this guy that I really like. He’s a few years older than me.. and more experienced in almost every aspect of life than I am. Especially sexually. We’ve talked about it and he thinks it’s great that I am a virgin. We fool around and I like being around him. He’s really genuine and sweet to me. He also doesn’t pressure me to do anything that I’m not comfortable with. Although, he’s been with SEVERAL women. Women that are even older than him. And I’ve had one boyfriend that I’ve even gotten close to becoming that intimate with.

I worry that I’m being compared..sometimes even that I bore him. I find that it is really hard for me to feel sexy and even entertaining to him because he is so experienced. All I can think about are all the other women he’s been with.

If there are any other women out there that have been in this situation what did you do? How can I feel sexy and enticing.. and if I do choose to get a little closer to him how can I be more…for lack of a better word virginy haha!?

And guys, if you’ve ever been in this situation what did you think of the girl? Did it last long or did you find her lack of experience boring? Were you just as turned on by her as other women?

I know this is really a strange question to ask on a computer chatting site, but I need some outside advice other than from my friends.

This guy is really important to me. I know he says he doesn’t mind, but I feel like eventually it could become a problem…? I just don’t want to lose him over something like this. I know how important sex and intimacy are in a relationship. But it’s hard for me to want to open up because he makes me feel soo vulnerable.. and well inexperienced haha!

Thank you for any help ; )

First off guys are VERY visually stimulated. Seeing you naked will be enough to turn him on. Throw a little confidence on top and its over. You just need to realize that he’s with you because he wants to be. That means he’s attracted to you, so don’t concern yourself with his past when you’re his future. As for the whole girl lacking experience thing you are who you are. If he knows and understands that you are a virgin then it’s his responsibility to be as caring and gentle with you as possible. Once you are comfortable with it then you can worry about rocking his world but until then relax and let him take control. Besides guys love telling girls what to do in bed.