I’ve been talking to this guy for a month now. We were both digging each other and a mutual friend hooked us up. We talk at least once every night, up to two hours sometimes. He’ll ask me about my day and what I’m planning on doing the next day. Also, during the day, we send a few texts here and there. He does and says all of the right things, except for one thing. He usually doesn’t call until later on in the day around 8-10:00. Is this normal? How can two people that are "talking" not talk until around that time? Doesn’t he wonder what I’m doing all day? Is it that he’s not interested enough to know what I’m doing all day? SOME days, he does randomly text to say, "Hey baby, where are you?" or "What are you doing?" Anyway, is that small detail common in relationships or should I worry? I do know he’s into me because of his words/actions prove that, but this one thing is making me wonder. Thanks for any advice!
have you asked him why he calls at those times? why don’t you try calling him? If you want a relationship, it helps to have communication. It’s a simple question, so there shouldn’t be a problem for him to answer it unless he is hiding something.
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he’s married.
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I think he like u since u guy been texting and talking about stuff so he is in to u but careful he might not be a good guy
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a lot of times i am busy up until that time, he could be busy, or he might think that you are busy. normally, 8-10 is not a very busy time for most people
dont think too deeply into this, i normally dont call girls until around 9
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First of all, how old is he?
Second is he engrossed in his job?
Is work very important to him?
Or it is the only time he can get away from his wife to call you.
You be the judge.
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stop being so obsessive, he is busy…work, school, and any number of other possible responsibilities
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He must have better things to do during the day, like hang with his gf.
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i don’t think you need to worry. calling that late seems to be the best time to call. between the hours of 8 and 10 you are more likely to not be doing something important, i.e. work, classes, etc., and he will be able to talk to you longer without interruptions. also before 10 he won’t feel like he is keeping you from sleeping, which you may or may not mind depending on your sleep schedule
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i’m a guy
Maybe he is afraid that you are still asleep before that or so… or he is only awake after that time. Dont sweat about it much! if it does bother you, why not ask him about it jokingly through text, then you would know.
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Hmm, yes, that is suspicious. Have you tried asking him? Making him look you in the eye and answer? If you two are really into eachother, he should have no problem answering you truthfully. Sometimes, if there is a reason, it’s normal when there’s a specific time you can talk. In a case like this where you don’t know, i wouldn’t expect it to be normal. This could just be a wavering in your relationships, no relationship is perfect. Just get the courage to ask him if it worries you so much. It’s your choice.
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I doubt he’s married. Your mutual friend would have known that! I would ask him why he never wants to talk until after 8:00. After a month, that is not too forward. Do you ever call him? You could try calling him and do so earlier than 8:00. See what happens.
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have you asked him why he calls at those times? why don’t you try calling him? If you want a relationship, it helps to have communication. It’s a simple question, so there shouldn’t be a problem for him to answer it unless he is hiding something.
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Ask him.all the sweet talk makes me think maybe he’s a pro.how many more girls is he chatting up?
I us to be a pro and had a lot of ladies strung
tight.all the rite words and come Ono’s sweet talk.
don.t go to fast.and when he calls next time,tell him to call you at a time you pick,and see what his
answer is.IF he says he can’t.he will make a
excuse.
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