I’ve been with a much older guy for about a year. He’s attractive and wealthy and has had a lot of attractive girlfriends. Quite a lot has happened in this time, and we moved in together about three months ago. He wants me to move out now for several reasons. I’m not very responsible because of my age, and he has reason to not trust me. He’s realised that I’m quite two-faced and somewhat and lie about everything. I feel a little humiliated by this as my parents know him and warned me that he’s a womaniser and he’d never let me move in with him. I did do, and now I feel a bit stupid – he doesn’t want to split up completely though, he says this is probably the only way to save the relationship. I’ve also started being very clingy with him, telling him I don’t want to lose him and such like. I have a feeling I’m not doing the right thing. How do I save my relationship?
It’s all over, Gone, Finished, Zilch, You’ve been kicked to the kerb, Tossed out, Been shown the door. Can you do painting by numbers?
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It’s all over, Gone, Finished, Zilch, You’ve been kicked to the kerb, Tossed out, Been shown the door. Can you do painting by numbers?
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I wouldnt…..I would move on…..He`s obviously just used you for what he can get and he wants to move on to the next young girl….Drop Him…He`s a Player….
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my honest opinion is that you already lost him. youve said he is wealthy and has a lot of girlfriends and wants you to move out…. that says a lot… men who are in love dont ask the women who they love and want to be with, to move out of his home.
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im an older guy who used to date many many young girls…before i found the girl i wanted to be with…and when i did find her, i asked her to move in not out
Go away from him. Guys HATE clingy women, and I mean we HATE it. Your description of yourself is someone I would make go away!
He probably wants to keep you around until he finds himself a new girlfriend, that way he can keep gettin some.
Make a clean break and change the things about yourself that made him give you the boot. Your next relationship will be better for it.
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Sadly, it’s much easier to see from outside a relationship than inside. I realized what had happened before I even read that he’d asked you to leave.
It may be that he can’t handle the differences in lifestyle/responsibility (leave stuff laying around, while he’s a neat freak) or that you’ve lied, cheated, or given him some reason not to trust you…but it sounds more like he’s found someone else he’d like to spend some time with, and he can’t do it with you around.
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sweetheart first you have to save the relationship with yourself. if you r living a lie and you’re found out to be two-faced as well, there’s not many people who are going to respect you until you learn to respect yourself. I think using your age at this point is unfair because you felt you were old enough to move in with an older man because he was wealthy even thou he has a lot of women friends , makes me think that you were after something that was not there in the first place. you lied to get to that point and got exposed in the process leaving you on the outside looking in and until you keep it real with yourself no one is going to want a relationship with you on any level because you cant be trusted. feel me sweetheart, you have a lot of growing up to do.
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from the sounds of it your relationship may already be over ,communication is always the key so by moving you out it seems like he just doesnt want to deal with it and is trying to push you away slowly ,i would think of yourself and put the do or die question to him , one way or the other you will know where you stand , and all those other fish out there that will be willing to treat you better than he does.
good luck
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Sorry Libradoll but it’s too late to save this relationship. Youv’e proven to be an immature, irresponsible, two-faced liar that cannot be trusted. Use this experience as a life lesson; grow up, mature and fix your problems or you will never have a continuing relationship.
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I think you need to value yourself a bit more and get rid of this loser – he is the type of guy who thinks that women are on this planet for his personal recreational sport! He will never respect anyone – he thinks of himself far too much. Don’t beat yourself up – it is good that you have recognised that you have a few faults – get over it – we are all born that way – just don’t fall for the same kind of guy again. Their money/attractiveness do not make for a lasting relationship, or at least one that is based on love and respect.
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