Sooooo..
There’s this guy that I used to like. He used to stare, make jokes, and try and flirt me all the time and he still does. When he first started doing these things that suggested to me that he liked me; I found out he had a girlfriend. A long-term one at that. So I immediately forced myself from liking him and ened the little "crush" I had. If he could flirt with me while he had a girlfriend then why couldn’t he do the same if I was his girl right?
So, lately he broke up with his girlfriend and he told my friend that he liked me but was scared to approach me. NOW, MY QUESTION IS… Is it wrong for me to go into a relationship with him?
I would not like him to flirt with other girls how he flirted with me, when he had a girl, so I guess I shouldn’t ‘revamp’ my feelings? Should I?
So as you can see GUYS, I’m a bit confused on what to do, what’s a man’s perspective of this?
Thank you so much in advance! 
Much Love!
This is kinda weird. I was in this same situation like two months ago… Me being the guy with a long term girlfriend and liking a new girl. Chances are that he’s not really interested in the long term girlfriend anymore and is looking for someone new. He was probably testing you to see if you liked him back and was worth breaking up with this other girl. Obviously, you were. I’d go for it if I were you. My new girl and I have been dating for a month and we’re very happy together. You’ll be the same.
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u can, but be cautious & aware he might flirt with another girl.
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stay away
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my excat same experiance
well i always go by the saying ‘you can look but cant touch’ so as long as hes not goin out with other women behind your back you have nothing to worry about. everyone flirts even if they are on a relationship. girls do it to me all the time and vice versa.
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This is kinda weird. I was in this same situation like two months ago… Me being the guy with a long term girlfriend and liking a new girl. Chances are that he’s not really interested in the long term girlfriend anymore and is looking for someone new. He was probably testing you to see if you liked him back and was worth breaking up with this other girl. Obviously, you were. I’d go for it if I were you. My new girl and I have been dating for a month and we’re very happy together. You’ll be the same.
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THE FACT THAT IT WORKED FOR SOMEONE DOESNT MEAN IT WOULD WORK FOR YOU. MEN ALWAYS CHOOSE. IF HE LEFT THE OTHER BECAUSE HE FELT HE WOULD HAVE YOU,CHANCES ARE WHEN YOU START UPSETTING HIM WHICH YOU WOULD AND ANOTHER LADY COMES ALONG,YOU WOULD BE HISTORY.
BE WISE.
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Well as guys its part of our genes to flirt. like i do it without knowing. we can do it just because its part of who we are. but we mean no harm ( well some of us) but its good to trust. but also its good to prepare to be hurt. its only the people you trust who can hurt you. You like him. so why not go for it. go for what makes you happy, but also it depends on how well you know him. if you know yourself you can trust him, then go for it. but if not then if it were me id be id make sure i get to know the person. but just do what you want to do
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maybe his relationship wasnt goin well and he just didnt love his girlfriend anymore when he started flirting with you… He did broke up with his girlfriend so that should tell you something, I think you should try and see how it goes. But try to take it slow cuz it may just be a flirt and nothing else, but it could also be something better.
Good Luck!!
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