When Marriage Certificate can be cancelled at anytime without any reason. No false divorce. And the man would have to split half of his property, salary for child support etc…(the divorce industry), with just a VAWA claim, the divorce court would have suck him dry.
So did similar thing happen in common law relationship.
He can be charged with rape/ DV any time his spouse feels bore. That’s worse than living alone: he doesn’t have to worry all the time about jail.
He can only have sex if his wife let him. And if he can’t perform immediately, that would be ground for divorce.
He can’t ask her to do any thing & She can demand him to do anything: that’s the HIDDEN contract, if such condition is not meet, she can comfortably file for divorce.
He has to live by her way or the highway. But not vice versa.
Etc….
If you examine CAREFULLY today relationship pre-set up by the laws, whichever you turn, the man will loose.
There is NO BACK UP SYSTEM for him if the relationship fails: ALL he has, is to rely TOTALLY on the character of his spouse. If he starts the new relationship from scratch, he may run into the same trouble. And still has o pay for the previous relationship.
Wat feminists advice men? "ou have to know and look careful at the woman’s character before you enter a relationship". But how can he do that? Few men are psychologist specialized in Women Behaviour, or psychic reader??
That is ALL of his BACK UP SYSTEM??
On the bargaining table, he must demonstrate a respectable income/ career/ height requirement/ health, sweet talking, pleasing, flower, etc….you name it.
While she only needs to represent herself. Notice that the BURDEN of child bearing/ rearing is only an open OPTION for women nowadays. No man would be in a position to demand it.
In the final analysis, marriage or common law contract for Men in the West is nothing BUT a slave contract, which the slave have to submit to his Master.
Neither did single man fare better.
Women have many OPTIONS/ CHOICE nowadays, but where is Men’s OPTION?
If he strives for a degree/ solid career before marriage, he loose his youth and his emotional/ sexual well-being satisfaction.That is if he’s strong enough to go without women.
If he didn’t do it, he has no bargaining chip: He is undesirable, looser.
He can’t pursue what he dream of because of constant financial burden / emotional stress in relationship.
While women can have her cake & eat it too.
How on Earth has this men’s MISERY befallen upon us?
Your thought, pls.
@KIA: yeah right?? That’s what my beloved feminist sistah told me. Oh, yeah, 500 000 years! Satisfy?
@Kailey:
1/ women have the legal sytem protected her as A BACK UP system if relationship fails, no matter who’s fault. Men don’t.
2/ Common law marriage is automately assigned in Canada, Sweden, etc…whether the man agree or not.
3/ What make you claim to understand Misandristic "Laws" better than me?
But thanks for your usual feministic warp logics.
@Mama Outlaw: I am not Arabic. But I was lucky enough to be born in a culture that vigourously teach how to be a man. Unlike Western culture who only created mostly Feministed Males.
My anxiety is based on reality and experience. Thanks for the concern.
you read everything that i ever had on my mind dude(you are a girl right) and the only resort is to never date or get married, also if you think that’s bad look at this that is going on in india
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"How on Earth has this men’s MISERY befallen upon us?" — The idea is that men have been exploiting women for "tens of thousands of years" now and/or taking advantage of the options/choices that they received as part of the package of being born of the male persuasion. It’s the women’s turn now.
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you read everything that i ever had on my mind dude(you are a girl right) and the only resort is to never date or get married, also if you think that’s bad look at this that is going on in india
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http://www.true-equality.net/archive/2008/05/10/domestic-violence-new-law-in-india—renuka-chaudhary.aspx
Yes, marriage is definitely a win/lose situation. All of your points are so very valid. I’d like to add another. What happens when the woman becomes more unattractive by the day? That would scare any man away for sure. It is inevitable, too.
I urge all men to stay single. If some tail comes your way, use it (Safely) and then let it go. There will always be more.
Porn > Marriage/Jail
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A common law marriage IS a legal marriage- and is not exempted from the rules and regulations of a marriage. However, a common law marriage isn’t the result of just "living" together there is often criteria, such as filing an income tax from together, and referring to each other as husband and wife. Common law marriage is not available or recognized in all states.
I also cannot comprehend the rest of your ramblings- they seem like you don’t have any understanding of the law, society, what it means to be in a committed relationship or be married. Men in marriages aren’t slaves and neither are women. Sure, some husbands and some wives treat their spouse like sh*t, but that is not the case for all couples. Some spouses really have egalitarian relationships, where they love and value each other for what they do in the marriage/relationship and what they do outside of it (Work, hobbies).
Lastly, yes character is important and why would you marry someone whose character you didn’t know? Women don’t have degrees in male psychology either. You can judge someone’s character by spending time with them, watching/observing them and listening to them. If you don’t do that, and marry someone because he/she is hot or makes a lot of money, you get what you get.
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All you need to know is do NOT move in with a woman. Also, do not develop a financially dependent relationship with a single mother. Because if you break up, she can still get your money. The courts will rule that because the child benefitted financially from your sexual arrangement, the free lunch continues long after the BJs have stopped.
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